i am seperated 4rm my bf last night and my father is sending him to his country after 2 days and i cannot even talk to him and i am in serious condition i am gonna kill myself my father is doing this bcuz i am talking to him on the phone so plz tell me what can i do?
2006-11-11 22:35:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please call the suicide help line first.
We don't know the whole story here....can your mother help you calm down your dad...this could all work out if your dad will discuss what the problem is exactly.
http://www.befrienders.org/
2006-11-11 22:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since i dont know how old you are, i dont know what actions you can take to stand up for yourself. i assume, however, you are younger since your father is involved. please dont harm yourself over something like this. it may suck for you right now, but maybe when your guy leaves and you spend some time apart and grow up a little, you can be together again. also, talk to someone you can trust with this, maybe your mom would be more sympathetic. just dont kill yourself, one day you'll be older, and you will make your own choices and its not worth missing out on!
2006-11-12 06:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question needs to be re-written - you make no sense! What do you mean by "your father is sending him to his country"? What country, and why is your father doing it? - send your question out again, and be more specific. I tell you this - DON'T KILL YOURSELF! until you send out a more detailed question. If you are that upset and feel like dying -phone the "suicide hot line" Please.
2006-11-12 06:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur father is right! he wants to protect u so dont tell me ur gonna kill urself over a guy, so what ull find another guy, and even if u dotn want to u can still keep in touch, with ur b/f theres technology these days so u can find him no matter where ever u he is.
2006-11-12 07:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweet girl... slow down.... you DO need some immediate help. do not waste your time here... call someone, a friend or family member... If you attend church, call someone you know from there... NO ONE is worth hurting yourself... If you can't think of anybody to talk to, then dial 911 & tell them you are in need of some
counceling.... You need some help at once....
2006-11-12 06:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom if you have one and explain you don't want him to go. If your mom isn't available talk to your father and try to reason with him. If you continue to feel so distraught you need to contact mental health serrvices in your area immdiately as they deal with people owho are suicidal They can help you feel much better
2006-11-12 06:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself is not an option. Try talkign to someone about this who is more connected to the situation rather than yahoo answers
2006-11-12 07:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're boyfriend is an illegal immigrant or something? how could your father send your boyfriend somewhere he did not want to go? unless your boyfriend wants to go, then it's his decision and you should just get over it.
2006-11-12 06:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!!Dun ever take such stupid decision!sure ter ll b solution 4 everytin.u r 2 ovaemotional as i guess!parents always do gud 4 us!
2006-11-12 06:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself. Just calm down.....talk to somebody
2006-11-12 06:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋