i am a size 16 always .have been and always will be i am funny but not very pretty men seem to run a mile why ?
2006-11-11 22:30:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have a problem with bigger women. What I hate is these skinny, malnourished looking women. They aren't attractive. They might have pretty faces but not a turn-on to me. Just be yourself and you'll have men chasing you. Those are the guys you want in your life.
2006-11-11 22:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Herman Munster 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You're not the one with the problem, the men who run are - they're immature. My late wife was a size 18 (I'm a slim 10 st.) and we were very happy together. My girlfriend is a size 16, do I pick "large" women, no, I choose women the I enjoy the company of - to me looks aren't important. Someone could be a stick but who would want to wake up to a ***** for the rest of their lives. I loved my late wife and my girlfriend because of who they are on the inside.
2006-11-12 00:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by spear_1021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you project the attitude that you're not worth talking to cos you already know you're not going to get anywhere. Stop assuming the guy's going to have a problem with you before you've even started, it'll become a self fulfilling prophecy.
You can't define sexiness but I'd say it's a state of mind rather than a look.
Go out for a laugh with the girls with the plan that you're not going to "look" at any blokes - just be yourself, enjoy yourself and project something positive, in time you'll get some attention.
2006-11-11 22:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by phooey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men have a very broard view about women. from a very young age they are force-fed images of (supposed) perfection with the ideal woman being stick-thin and blonde with perfect hair. But for the ones in the real world we know that not all women are like that and the one that are not perfect (and I`m not saying you`re not as I don`t know you) are the ones with the best personallities. "Perfect" women are the ones who expect everything and everyone just to fall at their feet and get a rude shock when it doesn`t happen. As you can see I don`t have a problem with "big" women
2006-11-11 22:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're hanging out with the wrong crowd. There are men that want a bigger woman. Maybe you aren't attracting those men because you're not into the type of man that wants the big women?
2006-11-11 22:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Your dating the wrong men. I'm size 18/20 and have a lot of admires. BBW are next hot thing, you heard here first.
2006-11-12 03:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, now a days it is all stick insects on TV etc, and women feel under pressure to be a slim sex goddess, men are fickle at times and like to be seen out with a slim attractive woman, probably who hasn't got a brain or sense of humour but that wouldn't bother them as she will be something to brag to his mates about, people forget that bigger women can be just as sexy and loving and clever and have a great sense of humour and yes even be beautiful, they would have had to of worked on their personality harder to make friends and have guys notice them, i think men are just scared as to what their mates will say but that is their loss and i personally wouldn't want to be with a bloke who is that fickle in the first place, there are some guys who totally adore the larger ladies and love every bit of them, as long as you are healthy and happy and feel good about yourself that is all that matters, we are just more of a woman than some guys can handle...
2006-11-12 00:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get you a man that is a side of 16 or 18 and to my you seam to be a pretty women why than run a mile ask than
2006-11-11 22:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People are first attracted to others visually. It's the same when you see a guy, you probably take a second look at a big muscular guy before a scrawny little guy. Be confidnet in your personality and the right guy will come along and love you for you and not your body
2006-11-11 22:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mica 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is all in the eye of the beholder. I know men who love women who are bigger. They do not like skinny women. Men also like women who are self confident in themselves. They don't care if they are big, but they have to care about themselves. Some women don't like themselves and it shows. They may dress like they don't care about themselves. I have a male friend who has told me that. He said if she puts herself together well, it doesn't matter. She could be the ugliest person but shows she cares about who she is and who she is with by dressing well and putting on makeup, it doesn't matter what her body stature is.
I agree that we have to have self confidence in ourselves. If we don't, it shows. There is someone out there for everyone and I think that when we meet, it won't matter anyway.
2006-11-11 22:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋