I don't like to generalize, however, it has been my experience that every, and I mean every beautiful woman I've opened my heart up to, has taken advantage of me. Is it that I should not let the next beautiful woman I date, think that I love her more than she loves me? Seriously, I think that has to be my problem. I'm attracted to women of my age 36 or around my age including a little older. They tend to know that life is not all about the NOW! It's about what we are doing to make our lives better for us to live. Teaching our children what is right and what is wrong. Spending time with our children to show that they not only care about them, but want them to grow up to care about others, more than themselves. You know what? I really just want to talk to a woman who shares the same thoughts as me. I consider myself an attractive heterosexual who is a "Libra" if it matters. That's part of my problem. I'm a peace maker. Not the type of guy who is demanding. Just shares love!
2006-11-11 22:13:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Us beautiful, older women have a motto. First time for love, second time for lust & money. Just kidding. When you say you just share love, what exactly is your meaning of love? Sex? Or are you too smushy?
You didn't explain the taking advantage part. Of what? Your money? Your heart? You sound kind of smothery and clingy to me. Do you move too fast? That scares women away and makes you look too emotionally needy. There are beautiful women of all ages. You need to look for the beauty within too. Not just outside appearances. Believe it or not, you can find both if you are patient. You do not have to settle for an ugly, dumpy woman to be assured of love. You haven't found the right, beautiful woman because you are trying too hard. You will meet her, just be patient.
A friend once told me, when you scoop up sand really fast, it just flies into other people's eyes, huh? When you scoop up a handful of sand and close your fingers too tighly, what happens? It slips right through your fingers. If you hold your hand out, with open palm and fingers together, what happens? The sand will stay. Then , I said something really smartazz like, then somebody runs by and knocks your sand out of your hand. Then my friend said, well, you probably shouldn't have picked it up in the first place because it wasn't meant to be in your hand anyway. Never pick up a handful of sand unless you know what the pollution level is. We laughed because we felt really Confusciousy. LOL. There is total truth to it though.
If you really like someone a lot, hold on loosely, but don't let go. If you cling too tightly, you will lose control. That is a line from .38 Special. Good luck. And whatever you do, don't use that last line of your question on the women you meet. You sound like your trying to sell yourself as some kind of gigolo and that is a total turn off, at least for me. And the I think I am attractive sounds kind of funny because you know for sure if you are or you aren't to women. You could be attactive to your Grandmother, but not to other women your age. Know what I mean? LOL!
p.s. Hannah sounds exactly right about you and Rashi. I had a Libra husband who was as handsome as could be and turned out to be abusive. Now I have a Taurus man who is rough looking and loves me totally and completely. Your sign is no indication of how you really act. It doesn't reflect how you were raised, how you will treat kids, etc. That is influenced by genetics and environment these days. Don't put too much trust in the Zodiac. Woman looking at you in the age ranges you speak of don't care about your sign. There are too many environmental issues to deal with this day and age to depend on the stars. Women these days have evolved from the 60's and look for other traits, not one's zodiac sign. You know how lame, "What's your sign ?" sounds to women these days? LOL! "What's your penis size and yearly salary is what you should worry about with the sexual lionesses from 35 and up. LOL!
2006-11-11 22:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know all about your sign, and your correct in your analysis. My dearly departed son was a Libra. I always refer to Libra's as the Lovers of the Zodiac... your born under a Great Sign. Watch out for yourself, you are too kind. Read more about yourself. A good site that I found, and it's FREE - "astrology.com" - go to "iVillage.com" and connect from there. Your children are lucky to have you, keep teaching them the way you are, your doing the right thing. Try and look more for women who are compatible to your sign. Look for Taurus,Virgo,Gemini women, and just a little YOUNGER then you... especially Taurus women, the most loyal,steadfast and great parents sign in the Zodiac. Make your life around your children, make them first in your life, and you will never settle for less then you deserve. The path will be clear, set your priorities, and all will fall into place. I promise. Remember, Your Children are the mainstay in your life, the constant, and will be there for you when your old and grey - when you need them the most, so be careful who you bring into their lives, make them happy first, then you will be happy - get the picture... OK .. now do it!
2006-11-11 22:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By what you said,your being a nice guy and not demanding... that attracts the wrong type of women. Those women prey on men like you, they make you fall in love then they reveal their true self and walk all over you. Try acting as though "you don't care so deeply" The women you were talking about love the chase but once they catch you,they become bored and move on to the next guy! Take time to really get to know her before confessing your love for her. Or get a gal that's not so beautiful! Have you heard that song...If you want to be happy for the rest of your life.... you gotta get an ugly wife! lol good luck!
2006-11-11 22:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm a lot younger than that and i'm taken but you sound a really really nice guy and i just wanted to wish you luck on your search for someone thats just right for you. Never give up looking shes waiting to share your love
2006-11-11 22:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AS long as i am concerned I did not even understand what ur question is. but what I did understand is that u are a cute handsome honest good-looking Libra like me. That's right i am also libra so if youever need a date remember my name is Rashi and you can chat with me on the net. i will be waiting.
2006-11-11 22:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rashi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The problem is, your dating women with big ego's and arrogant about their appearance. They feel they can have anyone they want, so as soon as you opening up to them scares them, they bail. Find a girl is is pretty but not arrogant about it and has no ego.
2006-11-11 22:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking, I guess. It sounds like the appearance of the package matters greatly to you- including your own.
2006-11-11 22:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women like guys who take control, not the other way around
2006-11-11 22:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say gd luck dude
2006-11-11 22:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Edward H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is the question?
2006-11-11 22:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋