i am not comfortable trying new sex positions with my partner. i know he wants to and so do i but i scared of being bad at it. how do i overcome this
2006-11-11 22:03:55 · 15 answers · asked by carlz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go straight
2006-11-11 22:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Chichou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety it sounds to me like you r over thinking sex. All people even porn stars look silly while they have sex the fact is people are sooo busy enjoying themselves that they really don't care or notice if their sex partner looks a little silly. Anyway who said a good chuckle in bed can't ease the tension you feel.
Don't ever do things you are nor a 100% comfortable with but you won't know if you are comfortable or not until you at least try it. Changing positions changes the pressure and position of the penis inside the Virgina and you might find that there are other spots inside your Virgina that are just waiting to be discovered. Don't think about it too much try to just enjoy it as much as you can.
2006-11-12 06:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosen up.. sex is all about enjoyment, fun and having a good time with the person you dig. How can you have sex one way and yet say other positions are off limits? I don't get it. How the hell are you supposed to be good without ever going. Your partner will enjoy every minute of your experimenting. Be honest, relax and enjoy. You will find that losing your hangups will open new doors and every step along the way is part of the fun!
2006-11-12 06:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Enjoy the moment. Close your eyes, breathe and remind yourself that it's okay if you make a mistake...but if you let go of overthinking, you probably won't make a mistake and you both with enjoy it much more! Close your eyes and get caught up in the moment-no thinking required. It's nice to have a fan or something in the background to help drown out the silence. Lights off for a lil' bit until you're more comfortable and then just start making out and it will certainly pick up from there!
2006-11-12 06:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Camille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bad at it, but thats where all the fun is in it. The fact that theyre new makes things interesting and fun. You should ask him if he has anything in mind that he wants to try and go for it. The only way one can learn to be good is with practice. Do whatever feels natural, and do things that you would like done yourself. In fact treat your partner as you would want to be treated and everything will be fine.
2006-11-12 06:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by voltage16x16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with doing things don't do them. If you want to make your partner happy talk to him about your insecurities and concerns and maybe you could get comfortable with trying new things. Don't do them because you feel forced you will never get comfortable that way. Good Luck in whatever you decide.
2006-11-12 06:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let nature take it's course.How can you be bad at something that feels good.If you have a partner that truly loves you everything will be fine. Relax and enjoy yourself.Maybe you could have a couple of drinks to help relax you.
2006-11-12 06:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by pmcharles123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your partner. Just be open and honest. No one likes to do something uncomfortable that is supposed to feel good. Communication is the key.
2006-11-12 06:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Order him, some men like games in the sack and remember, practise makes perfect
2006-11-12 06:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had to walk before you could run, right?
Baby steps... experiment with each other... you'll find that you'll like certain things over others... it can and will be fun!
2006-11-12 06:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋