Like this guy who is also a best mate, if we went out as part of a group, how would I dress to catch his attention and say 'I like you'. Please sensible answers, I will never dress like a tart.
2006-11-11 21:25:01 · 19 answers · asked by supastar_666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes well done! no tarty clothes. that can sumtyms be a huge put off. epecially to a mate. i think if you wore something which he is interested in too. it sounds weird, but if he likes the colour blue, wear a nice blue top and denim skirt, with a really nice bag that matches your outfit. u understand what am saying? coz that way he sees you wearing his fav. colour he will asociate his fav. colour with you and hopefully become attratced to you! gud luk xx
2006-11-11 21:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by LifeLiveLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The issue here isn't about dressing. If you already dress nicely and feminine then there is nothing else you can do.
The main issue is you are trying to pursue a guy and get him to like you romantically.
If you want to avoid heartbreak down the road, stop trying to attract his attention.
If the two of you are friends, and he views you in a romantic manner, he will pursue you. He already has an opening in your life.
The best thing is to stop spending so much time with him if you do this. Go out have fun and meet new people without him. Because he already knows you, there is no mystery.
Always make sure than when you do see him that you Look Good, Smell Good and Feel Good. Be light and breezy around him, but stop being the comfortable friend he can come to with his problems. Don't play therapist either. Be playful, but distant.
If he has any sort of romantic interest, this might make him pursue, especially if you stop hanging out with him and start going on dates with others.
If he dosen't pursue, then you can at least maintain the friendship with no hard feelings, since you will be making new guy friends anyway.
2006-11-12 05:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nija 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this guy is a "best mate" but has not shown any romantic interest in you, then it might be something other than how you dress. I suppose you've already tried dressing smart, cute, feminine, a skirt, etc., (Most guys like girls who are average weight or thin, wear a dress, and have long straight hair.) Did you notice anything different in him when you dress up? Then maybe it isn't how you dress.
Next step. Maybe he's a little shy and needs some encouragement. Find out what his hobbies and interests are and then ask him to go with you on a date to do something you're both interested in. When you go out then act like a fun person, and tell him you enjoy his company. You might find out that he's always liked your company too.
2006-11-12 14:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All of the answers so far miss the mark. If you dress in an attractive way, you have done as much as you can in that area. Sometimes boys and men are friends with girls because they like them and because they are interested in them romantically, but are afraid to say so.
If you really want this guy, you need to tell him that sometimes you have romantic thoughts about him and wonder if he does too.
That is the only way for sure to know if he is interested in you romantically.
Girls usually want to give indirect messages but a lot of guys don't have a book that tells them what these indirect messages mean.
If you want to be less direct, you can try to touch him more, like his hand, his shoulder, his face, and places like that when you are talking with him.
2006-11-12 06:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you wear isn't that important, it is your personality and opinions which will ultimately attract and keep him. Unless he is shallow, he is a bloke so there is strong possibility, then I go for something teasingly revealing but not tarty and have a good hair and subtle but amazing make up, particularly highlighting your best feature, hopefully your eyes! Give him a little flutter once in a while...
2006-11-12 05:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by WeirdNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be flaunting you assets babe
If you,vie a lovely bum then figure hugging jeans
If you have great breasts then wear something that shows them off.
If you,ve got lovely legs make then the centre of attention. Eyes too if yours are drop dead gorgeous make loads of flirty eye contact
Also beautifully applied make up & time spent on your hair is a must. Also a man wants a women to smell very feminine
Most inportant conduct yourself well & just be yourself
2006-11-12 05:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
top - wear a black top with spaghetti stripes (sleevless). try to reveal a little bit but not too much.i mean ur boob line should be revealed a little bit or else your boy would think that you are too much.
bottom - match with a jean material mini skirt skirt.remember to wear safety pants!!!these pants come in handy when you forgot to close your legs when you are sitting down or when you bend down to pick something..because once your underpants are revealed,it would be so embarrassing..
hey!!and wear a long neckalace.now,it doesnt fashion the choke neck neckalace..err i mean the one which is very short..wear those which the length reaches the boob line..a hello kitty pendant would be seductive!!
hope u will have fun if you go out with ur boy~
you will be the center of attraction!!
2006-11-14 05:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have to dress like anything, unless you wear a trench coat and don't let him see any of your curves, but if you have to catch his attention that way, you should move on to another guy.
2006-11-12 05:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Matt M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to attract my crush i am dressing up smart and classy (thats the way i like to dress anyway)i think that would do the trick,and also with a smart hairdo mine is a ponytail with a side fringe
hope that helps xx
2006-11-12 05:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it smart and classy. But how you dress for him when youre going out with a group I dont know?
2006-11-12 05:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋