i meet these wonderful girls but everytime they start showing me too much affection i end up pushing them away. Its like as if i don't want to find love.
2006-11-11 20:56:54 · 15 answers · asked by gocash26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you don't want to find love...if you did you wouldn't reject ppl. HOWEVER maybe you just haven't found the girl who does it for you...i think you need not worry about it too much...SHE is out there and when she shows up you will KNOW!
good luck darlin'
2006-11-11 20:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are scared of getting hurt I think. What if u open your heart to this wonderful girl and fall for her and she hurts u.........that's the fear. I myself have experienced that with my last bf. He said I was wonderful, and beautiful and showed him more affection than any woman he had been with, but in the end he pushed me away and I know it was out of fear. You need to let go of the fear or u will never find happiness and u may be pushing away the girl that is the right one for u. We can't find love unless we take the risk of getting hurt........its that simple. Don't do what my x did cause now he regrets it and that love and affection he pushed away is now being accepted by another and he could have had it for himself.
2006-11-11 21:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That deals with you having insecurities about yourself and not thinking your good enough to be really loved, I know that feeling and it usually goes like this- well if anyone saw the true me then they would see this ugly person that I see and I can't let anyone get close to me to see inside because then they'll reject me- which is not at all the case....
2006-11-11 21:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid being rejected first. Either way you lose, so you might as well stick around and see what it's like.
2006-11-11 20:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have your own specifications to be met in a girl..You will reject everyone until you find such a girl,,just wait and keep you ears and eyes wide open,,,you will find her one day..good luck!!!!!!
2006-11-11 21:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Jacsmith hit the nail on the head
2006-11-11 21:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still did not meet the right woman/girl that is why.
2006-11-11 20:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe or maybe those girls are not the girls for you...maybe your not content with settleing and there is nothing wrong with that...I think that when the right girl comes along, you wont turn her away.
2006-11-11 21:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had relations with men? Possibly you are not interested in women.
Good luck
2006-11-11 21:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause u dont find ur real love among them.
2006-11-11 20:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋