see i have this friend who i really like and she says that every monday is our day. but the thing is, she has this boyfriend and she knows that i like her. am i just being used by this girl?
last week she told me that we couldnt spend our day together because his boyfriend couldnt spend the whole week with her so he decided to use my monday with her. i agreed to that but the next days they were still together.
yeah im stupid but does that mean i was used??
2006-11-11 20:50:28 · 15 answers · asked by the_used 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is her boyfriend, You are her friend, get the message? She is using him for her boyfriend and you for her friend so act like one and lighten up!!!
2006-11-11 21:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not stupid. This kind of thing happens quite often. She needs to decide on what she really wants. Playing with peoples' emotions is not cool at all. I'd give it another week or two. Just straight up ask her what she wants. If she doesn't dump him or keeps playing this game, I would leave her alone. Your better off that way.
2006-11-12 04:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily...she could just value you as a friend and even though she has a bf maybe she is trying to make time for you. On the other hand, she could be wanting the best of both worlds not taking your feelings into consideration. I suggest that you just be honest with her and ask her about her intentions. If it is too hard for you to just be her friend then it sounds like that is your problem and you need to make the decision on weather or not to continue hanging out with her on a consist ant basis.
2006-11-12 04:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to have her cake and eat it too, don't let her use you in that way- your the one who will be hurt in the end of everything. find someone that has more respect for you then that. Or better yet- respect yourself enough to not be with that two timing slut...
2006-11-12 04:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT? THAT'S HER BOYFRIEND AND SHE REALLY DON'T OWE YOU AN EXPLANATION AS TO WHY SHE'S BEEN SPENDING TIME WITH HER BOYFRIEND STOP WEARING YOUR HEART ON YOUR SLEEVE....SHE IS YOUR FRIEND AND I DO NOT THINK SHE LOOKS AT YOU THE SAME WAY....TRY FINDING SOMEONE WHO YOU COULD SPEND TIME WITH TOO.
2006-11-12 04:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just enjoy instead of worrying so much. The only person who should worry about this is her boyfriend, not you.
2006-11-12 04:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean using u? do u really know what the word mean?
2006-11-12 05:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by DM FORMULAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know in your heart you are. Go find yourself your own girl.
2006-11-12 04:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both stupid but if it works keep doing it , but remember to remeber what it is and nothing else
2006-11-12 04:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're getting some.. who cares?
2006-11-12 04:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋