I've found myself in a very tricky situation. There are two important women in my life right now. One, whom I'm currently dating, we have that 'spark' in our relationship, and it can be a very passionate realtionship. But I know I could never spend the rest of my life with her...not in a happy relationship, at least. (Note, we've been together for several years, and it's NOT just a lust/sex based relationship). On the other hand, I have a very strong NON-SEXUAL relationship with someone, who I know is casually seeing a guy (who is overseas for a few months, not that it matters). I love her unconditionally, and I know I could spend a lifetime with her, although any kind of sexual realtionship would probably be awkward, considering how long we've been friends.
What on earth should I do? Do I leave the one I'm seeing for the other? Do I stay with the status quo? Or do I walk away from the two people I care about most in order to save my sanity?
2006-11-11 20:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by MikEnigma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u want to save ur self ........ it's better to save your friendship.................
ok lets take it in this way.................................
First of all, leave the girl with whom u have a physical relation.......... u like her only for sexual pleasure.............. so just forget her
and Secondly, please try to find a nice girl to marry with whom u can live ur both lives and get married as soon as possible...........
and Thirdly, keep your second friend with u because u like her 4 nothing......... and believe me a real friendship must be based on nothing............. but the trust and desire to be "just friends", nothing more;)
Be Happy Always and Forever
May God Bless You
2006-11-11 21:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cute Fighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun the only trick here is to sit donwn and ask yrsled wht is it that u want and wht is it that yr looking, in order to be in such a dilema, one woman must have wht the other is lacking, so sit down, take stalk, analyse wht yr looking for, analyse the qualities of both women, and take it from there, first fo all u also mentioned that u cud spend a lifetime with no 2 but u make no mention of that abt no 1 life is very short, so sit down away form both women, and do a deep soul search u will find the answer yr lookign for good luck
2006-11-12 04:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few questions:
1. U really think the second girl relationsip with the guy is just casual? Why?
2. Do you really think you can't live with the first giral forever? Why?
If you can't honestly answer thses questions, find a new girl.
2006-11-12 04:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by mms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, think carefully and ask yourself this question: Of the two girls, who do you love the most? It is better to spend your lifetime with someone whom you love rather than someone whom you like.
2006-11-12 04:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on have a vacation no gf's no communication with this two women then when you finally made a decision go for the girl of you dreams..
2006-11-12 04:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself free for 3 months no gf
then return and see with fresh eyes
2006-11-12 04:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now
2006-11-12 04:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋