im 15 and i know theres alot of girls around but this is young age relation ships are different and this girl ive been friends with for 3 years and we've gone out for 1 year but it ended horribly. but i cant get over her shes in my mind everyday and night its hard to confront her i keep rejecting other girls cuz of her and shes always in my head i cant do school work WHAT DO I DO? my grades are bad and its all because i cant concentrate and think in class because shes in my head all the time. please answer these seriously i need help!
2006-11-11 20:37:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to Gym get stronger and bit the shiet of your mine.
2006-11-11 20:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, you can't do anything. If you really love her, she will be a part of you forever. If you tell someone, like a close friend or counselor or adult you trust, though, it might help you get her off your mind a little more. As for school, though, you can think about her but in a different way. Be like "If so-and-so knew I was getting horrible grades because of her, she'd feel really bad so I should work harder to impress her," or "So-and-so would not be happy if she knew I failed this exam."
With the women you turn down, well, if you don't like them, then turn them down. No point in dating someone if you don't have feelings for them..Even if they are for a girl you can't have.
Hope this helps ^_-
2006-11-12 04:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by TheWhiteGirl93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to tell her what you feel;how it feels. tell her by having an honest conversation or if not through letters. if all ways have been exhausted and she still doesn't want you back, then you have to let go of what you feel for her. you are still young, do other things to forget her like start studying your lessons, join school activities, be a student leader and have fun doing all these things.
2006-11-12 04:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by reg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and seek the help of a psychologist before things get out of hand. Good luck.
2006-11-12 04:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by pannyman4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st i would do something nice for her like sending her flowers with an im sorry card even if you dont have anything to say sorry for then i would talk to her tell her how you feel best of luck
2006-11-12 04:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by mela26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young to be that deep!
2006-11-12 04:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋