I miss him so bad. I wish I knew how to let go of him. Can anyone suggest anything that may help me stop thinking about the one person who seems to own my heart. I dream about him all the time and everything still reminds me of him and yet we have not been together for a whole year damn near. Is there somethin wrong with me? Is it just obsession? Or is it because I truly loved this kid and tried my damndest to give him the best of me. I understand that I ****** up but why can't I get a second chance? He won't even talk to me to hear about how well I am doing for myself. Someone please teach me to let go...
2006-11-11 20:01:03 · 3 answers · asked by blackdahliagrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have dated other people. People that are, i suppose, better for me because they have plans for their lives and ****. I want to be happy with my latest boyfriend cause he is so wonderful and loving and just driven and it drives me to be better(he convinced me to be a mortician like I always wanted) but despite how amazing he is and how badly I want to love him completely there is some sick part of me that won't let go of my ex. I feel like I am cheating my new boyfriend out of true happiness because I can't seem to let go of my ex.
2006-11-11 20:08:45 · update #1
and oh yea. the ex was exactly what I had been building up in my perfect person since I was six. I mean..it was kind of scary to see my deepest fantasy personified.
2006-11-11 20:09:47 · update #2
Have faith in God.
He has a plan for you.
He will give you the one you're meant to spend your life with in His time.
And remember. Things happen for a reason.
You may not know what the reason is NOW... but there's a reason.
Just learn from the experience and use it for the future.
2006-11-11 20:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. Just have faith that things happen for a reason and if he is meant for you he will come back to you. If not there is going to be someone better for you out there. But I know how you feel and I hope you get him back if that is what u really want.
Good Luck
2006-11-12 04:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by dolcevita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame yourself, try and find new relationships, even though you must think i'm talking crap, theres always a special person, the other part of your soul, maybe you haven't been looking.
2006-11-12 04:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by spicylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋