I'm I an idot for trusting him, or is it the opposite, am I too insecure. I WAS supportive, even incouraging of him going out with the guys until after 3. What's up?
2006-11-11 19:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by babebear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its after 5/6 that you should start getting angry...i think personally if you know your mans friends really well and you can tell that they are decent guys you shouldnt get too mad if hes not home by 3..
2006-11-11 19:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I go on a "girl's night out" I don't get home until that time either. The clubs don't even close til after 2 am, so it makes sense. You have to trust that he loves u and isn't doing anything wrong, and if he is the type that would well he doesn't need a boys night out til 3 to do it. Try to be more secure in your relationship and know that if u have a good one then nothing will sway him no matter what.
2006-11-11 19:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age, his age, and how long you've been together. I'm married and my hubby goes out with his buds about 3 times a month. However, he tells me where he's going and what time he should be home. Not because he has to but because he doesn't want me to worry about his safety. I personally think 3 am is very late to be out. 1 am is usually a good time for me. He also answers his phone when I call and I appreciate that. Let your guy know what you think is okay or not and if that doesn't work, do a "girls night out" without telling him anything and see how he reacts. Some guys just don't get it until you put them in their place. Good luck!
2006-11-11 19:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be surprised if i come home at all on a boys night outing! Hell things sometimes can get so out of hand that i (along with everyone else) wake up at the same place all the time (Darren's place over on the east side!). It's never a pretty morning though..... mostly because its 3pm and there's a strong ugly smell when i wake up, and then there's that pounding headache of course. So to answer your question, for me, its really common for boys night out to last past 3pm.
2006-11-11 20:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I would not buy that from him or even let him establish the precedent. Boys night out for me means that I can go watch Monday Night Football with friends at one of their houses, or I go hit some balls at the driving range and then go out for dinner or a beer or two. I am back by 10:00 pm at the latest. If your guy is out until after 3 then he is doing things that you really need to give up once you are married and not 25 anymore... married is married. If he wants to run around like that he should not have gotten married... whatever he does nothing good happens to anyone that late at night. He needs to grow up... He should be taking you out!
2006-11-11 20:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It lasts till the alcohol is all consumed. And that might be Wednesday noon.
On the other hand it might be used as a false alibi. But a stupid one. So if you have some real reasons to be jealous, this is another one... And if there were no reasons before, this is just a boys night.
2006-11-11 19:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked in a bar, saw lots of boys night out. They usually are quite harmless, just having yapping sessions. playing pool, dont worry about it, most stories you hear about boys night out are lies. After the bar closes they might go for something to eat, sometimes they crash at a friends house. I think you dont worry. and if ever he steps out of line, you will hear about it, so at the time dont worry , it only causes you stress. Try to enjoy your alone time,
2006-11-11 20:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys night out usually lasts until we get arrested.. So stop being insecure.
2006-11-11 19:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an idiot for trusting him if he comes in and slaps you on the *** with lipstick on his shirt and asks you whats for breakfast I suggest you make him some waffles and eggs.
2006-11-11 19:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guy tends to close the bar - i worry for a bit then i tell myself he's just being himself - he's the same when we go out )even to a friend's house) don't sweat it unless he comes home completely sober & smelling of perfume
2006-11-11 19:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋