He get angry easily and start throwing things around in the house. And also shout back when we talk to him. And also keep challenging us to quarrel or fight him.
2006-11-11 18:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by UnhappyParent 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
How old is he? I would suggest ignoring the behavior for a while. Some kids go through this phase to test their parents willingness to allow it. When he shouts at you, just tell him that you can't understand him when he yells at you. MAKE him speak softly before you react. About his throwing things, if they are his toys, then put them away where he can't get them. If he throws enough of them "away", then he will learn not to throw. And under NO circumstance should you quarrel or fight him. You MUST ignore this behavior all together. Just tell him softly and gently that you can not understand him when he acts like this or just flat out ignore him. Once he realizes that his behavior does not affect you, then he is liable to try a different venue to get his point across. Ignore it until you get the reaction you want - not what he wants!
If none of this works, then just beat his a$s! LOL!!!!
2006-11-11 19:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, I hope that you are not spanking because that just defeats the whole purpose. I took my son to a behavior shrink. He is now on meds. All I can say is get help a.s.a.p. and have alot of patients. Remember....your child wants your attention no matter how mad he gets you. To him, bad attention is better then none...so when he starts to act bad, don't give him the time of day, as long as he is not hurting himself. It will take a while but he will give up sooner or later. Then when he does good, reward him with verbal praise and hugs.
2006-11-14 15:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by blue_6670 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy!! Put him in his room remove all toys books TV radio. Big time out. Don't give in, leave him there for set time period. Then ask him if he is going to behave courteously and proceed to start a new family interaction program with checks and balances for good as well as poor behavior that disrupts harmony and disrespects the dignity of parents and children. Good luck.
2006-11-11 19:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know you, your family, or your son, but he is possibly hurting emotionally in some way, and is unable to express it appropriately, let alone identify his state. Hurting you is the only way he can think of to have you understand what he's going through.
Therapy or some other professional intervention is what he needs, but not in the midst of a violent episode. What initiates his outbursts? How do you try to de-escalate him?
Remember, however: DON'T be afraid to call the police or any other authourities in order to keep yourself safe.
2006-11-11 20:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Somnambulist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a therapist.
2006-11-11 19:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋