What age does this normally happen for guys? How can I know the guy I am dating is actually considering this something special rather than a hook up?
2006-11-11 18:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't usually even know when they are ready, until they meet the ONE.
The age is different for every guy. My sister and brother-in-law were high school sweethearts and are still together in their 40's. On the other hand, I have a friend in his mid thirties who still isn't ready. My boyfriend is 40 and has never been married - luckily, I'm not looking for marriage (been there, done that). Every guy is different.
The only way to tell is to have an honest heart-to-heart talk with him and believe what he tells you. If he says he's ready, but you don't believe him, trust what you know in your heart. If you can't have that kind of talk with him - he isn't ready.
2006-11-11 19:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by gatheringplace2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set age limit. It all depends on the man. (If u r dealin wit a boy it wont work) U will kno cause he wont play any games, he will invest most of his time in u, and he will let any other females in his life go. Most guys r lookin for someone to get them out of the game of playin the field. It can b hard to find a female to stop and hold on to. So if u r a good female and u make this known to him by show him complete love, he will hold on tight. If u cant feel it when he holds on to u, u kno he is not ready for the type of love u r willin to give him.
2006-11-11 19:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has nothing to do with it to be honest.
I've been with younger AND older guys who have just played games. They're all the same. Age isn't a factor.
The only time I knew that a guy wasn't playing games is when he was my friend first. We knew each other for a while, so it was more comfortable with him and by knowing who he was and how he is, I knew he wouldn't be the type to play games. And after 9 months, still no games.
2006-11-11 18:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no particular age guys start considring about serious relationship. When they meet the right person, they start considring a serious relationship. Some guys will never be ready for a relationship though. You have to talk to the guy you are dating whether a serious relationship is what he is looking for.
2006-11-11 19:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age men or boys mature at a diffrent rate then women, they usually take longer by far like if u are both same age figure 5 years, best bet always date men 5 years older u will be happier! This is just a rule of thunb but has always worked for me, unless u are under eighteen, this is diffrent!
2006-11-11 19:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-21 22:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no where you can trust anybody but you always put all your trust on that person. Be kind to the person you are in love with and you will find the difference.
2006-11-11 19:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when sex goes from several times a day to once week...he is ready to marry
2006-11-11 19:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by serengeti 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋