my bf and i broke up.. until now i can't seem to believe that all of a sudden he just call it quits... i was so shocked and i really cried a lot... i cried because i really thought ours was something that's for keeps... i can't help myself to feel pain.. never in my entire life had i loved the way i loved him but it's no use.... i can't feel any single hatred towards him until now.... he didn't tell or wxplain to me.. he just told me that he loved someone else.. we didn't have any communication for two days and after that he just suddenly wanted to break up... he was so dumbfounded!! i don't know how to stand up again... i really feel so down...
2006-11-11 18:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by mystery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand! But life is like that. It is never fair. It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion! You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy. Take good care of yourself!
2006-11-11 19:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mystery. You are just that. You can love a guy with your eyes closed why do you do that and then you say you got hurt. There are lots of things a guy says but i reckon you ignore it all together. He did not go all of a sudden he must have given a lot of tell tale signs, but you did not have your eyes or ears open to receive any of it. You thought for whatever reason that it was a relationships for keeps. Sorry the man was not your man you clung onto him because it may be hard to find some one else. Forget the pain and move on Next time keep your eyes and ears open
2006-11-12 03:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boy friend is gone he has taken your heart with him but only after he has broken it . Its natural for you to cry after all everything you are you see and heart will remind you of him you will feel anger sorrow shame and just plain loneliness after he has gone he will go to this other and you will know that his love that was yours is now being showerd on to her . Time is your allie . in time the pain willl lessen the hurt will fade and your lonliness will be filled with anothers love like a bandage your wound will heal and your scar will be a reminder of a gift that you gave and his inability to see what a treasure you blessed him with. You will love again and with the same passion and giving the gift of love with the same gay abandon it is a risk of haveing your world turned upside down . but you will be happy again Victoria .
2006-11-12 03:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ,, it is all part of the growing up process, honey...
You give it time and I promise that you will get over this guy... and find one that will treat you a whole lot better....
good luck
2006-11-12 03:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look for an outlet.... go travel... find a new hobby... discover your talents...
2006-11-12 03:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on and find some other nice guy
2006-11-12 03:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Dylan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens....either he'll come crying back, or it's time for a new boy
2006-11-12 02:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Iraq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋