He's talked to me before, so it's not like he doesnt know i exist. cant tell if he's shy or if he just doesnt want to ask me out.
2006-11-11 17:44:35 · 9 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think it's the guy's job at all. If you want to be with him, you should ask him out :)
2006-11-11 17:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably is just shy or hadn't thought about it , or could already have a girlfriend.
The best thing is for you to talk to him one day and ask if he wants to go get some coffee or lunch after class. The worse he can say is "no I am busy". That way you can get to know him better without saying "wanna go out on a date with me?"...that's too pushy.
2006-11-12 01:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was exactly once like you too. I also expect the guys to take initiative first. But first and foremost, we girls must get their attention too (I don't mean dressing too less or have outrageous make up...) Just chat with him more and try to make him feel comfortalbe communicating with you. In the long run, he will realise that you are really a good friend and will eventually ask you out himself! Its real. I also tried to chat and talk more to the guy i like without being too obvious. A few weeks later, he asked me out-whether i want to play pool or not! So good luck for your romance ^_^
2006-11-12 01:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant even believe someone in this day and age asked that question!!!
Sweetie, we are in 2006, if you dont go for it, you'll never get it!
Take the leap, the worst he can say is no, and if he tries to humiliate you, you'll be over his sorry *** in a second. You found out hes an idiot!
Kill 2 birds with one stone
2006-11-12 01:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Davids girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way guys love it when girls do the asking. these days girls can do everything a guy can so take him out on a date pay for food and everything he would like that i bet,
ask him to go bowling everyone loves to do that. if he seems a lil uncomfortable about it tell him more people are going and then get a group of people to go
2006-11-12 01:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by chris b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because he talked to you doesnt mean he is interested. Do you even know if he has a girlfriend? Maybe he was being friendly?
2006-11-12 01:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by UFGator07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a load of crap, he may be verry shy, or has had a bad past of expieriences with the opposite sex, if you dont take the chance yourself, youll never know what could have happened.
2006-11-12 01:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a initiative... maybe a harmless one.. like ask him a query or notes.. and engage him in a conversation... maybe he takes the clue
2006-11-12 01:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Pegasus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him...
2006-11-12 01:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by yu g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋