My boyfriend and I have sex regularly but somthing isn't right. He used to always be able to satisfy me and we did it all the time. Well, we still do it all the time but he doesn't make me orgasm. Its like he is no longer cares if I do or not. He says it is my fault. What is going on? I need someone else to give me a different perspective. Am I missing something?
2006-11-11 17:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by l'il mama 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Challenge him Tell 'em that his dick can't ride anymore, tell 'em that he's lame in the sack, tell 'em he's just another boy who can't make his girl scream!
2006-11-11 17:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I have a pretty good idea of what happened. When you first started having sex there was a lot of foreplay involved, more making out, more rubbing up on eachother. Now you've probably cut to the chase and stopped having so much foreplay. This is pretty critical for a woman, we're more complicated than that.
Start taking the time to make out more and tease eachother, have him go down on you and get you close to orgasm before you have sex, or 69 a little bit. Change it up and make sure you are really turned on before you even start to have sex.
Make sure to spice it up every now and then, maybe wear some sexy lingerie so you feel extra sexy and he just pounces on you. Get a pair of fuzzy handcuffs, toys, talk dirty, ect. Keep it interesting and anything but routine, that's key.
2006-11-11 17:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go a while without doing it....it couldnt hurt to see if that helps any......you could probably just be used to all of what you guys do together.
2006-11-11 17:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by strum_driven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to be so reclusive then do not take my advice. But I know I could give you some pointers from my own experiences.
2006-11-11 17:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and your boyfriend have both moved on and just don't have feelings for him
2006-11-11 17:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Felicia C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are either of you stressed? maybe introduce some adult novelties!
2006-11-11 17:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure a consler should help
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2006-11-11 17:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by *sarah rox* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheating and your intuition is telling you so. move on. NOW
2006-11-11 17:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
probably bored with him...
2006-11-11 17:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋