Ladies, what are your view on guys that is 22+, has a college degree, a job, but lives at home? Would you date him? Is it harder for guys to get girls when they still live at home with their parents?
2006-11-11 17:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by SL1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a college degree and a job, why would he still live at home unless he either:
1) is unable to take care of himself (lets Mom do it....again)
2) due to student loans, cannot afford his own place - but could find someone to share rent if he WANTED to be grown up and independent
No, I did date someone like that once, briefly, until I figured that he was a typical "Peter Pan" and never was going to grow up. That doesn't mean that is true of all people in that situation, but once burned, twice shy.
2006-11-11 17:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-22 10:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, as long as he plans on moving out later. By 22+, I'm hoping you mean above 22 and below 30.
He's gotta have a valid reason for living at his parents after 30. I mean VALID, whatever that reason may be.
If he has a full-time job and a college degree, that can only two things - 1) he's a penny pincher and won't buy a house unless ABSOLUTELY necessary, and 2) he's looking for a job and he needs place to shack for the meantime.
2006-11-11 17:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Θ Chez Θ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately I would date... The whole living at home thing, I think is ok. As long as you got your **** together. If you lived at home and no job and so on, thats another thing. That shows that you are not responsible and have nothing going for yourself. But if you have all that, I wouldn't think it would be a problem. But eventually after a little school, since you already have a job, look for a place of your own. Its always good to have your own place anyway....
2006-11-11 17:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still young and just hasn't found his exact place in life yet. I'd say over 25 is pushing it, but less than that give him a chance but walk away at the slightest sign of instability in his mental status.
Also, watch for indications that he is mature such as does he do his own laundry? Do the yardwork and repairs at the home? Respectful to his parents? Saving money and maintaining a good credit record. all of these are VERY important.
2006-11-11 17:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by MARTHA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah it does kinda make it harder to get a date when ur still under dads roof.
If you got a job why don't ya save up a bit and buy a house er somthin.
I would go out with a guy like that though,I love a momas boy
2006-11-11 17:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure hes just living at home do you know why lonely parent? Does he pay the house does he own a car or two just look at him and his qualities dont judge by where he lives
2006-11-11 17:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Reanne * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as he didn't plan on living at home forever. But why not, its cheaper and by the way are you looking? 24 female california... LOL
2006-11-11 17:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with living at home when your young and just finished college. save, make goals, and get a career going (not a job). a girl who likes u is going to understand and be with you cuz she likes u.
2006-11-11 17:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't live with your parents in the first place.
Well if you find the right girl why would she bother about the where abouts of your bed room?
I mean after all you shouldn't have sex before marriage.
2006-11-11 17:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋