Im 13 and my boyfriend touches me right below the waist (in the front),my butt,and my boobs and then he says what's this and I have to tell him which one of my body parts it is.....it is sickening...What should I do?
2006-11-11 16:51:33 · 43 answers · asked by lexi lu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just should have dumped him. I'm also 13. Boys like that are really useless. you must stand up confess what you feel about what he had done. you must believe in yourself and know that there are many other boys out there that are 100 times better than him.
2006-11-11 17:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by FarahYana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is showing a lack of respect for you. Plus if he's doing this in public places, you don't want anyone to see because it could reflect badly on you. He sounds like he's kind of mentally sick or sex obsessed. You should break up with him and don't worry about boys for several more years. You are only 13 and you will have your entire life to be aggravated by men. Trust me, I'm 38, I know this! :) Just study hard, enjoy your friends, and have a great time. The men will still be around later and you'll find a guy who respects you as a person and not just as a sex object. Good luck, Honey. :)
2006-11-11 17:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on your gut instincts. If this guy is older then you then he is just a perv trying to molest you and take advantage.
Even if he is your age, touching you like that if you aren't into it is disrespectful. He's a hornball and needs to be taught how to treat a female properly.
Even though he's your boyfriend, you are 13 and that is your choice. Even if you were 18 and weren't ready to have sex or be touched like that by him then it is OKAY. Don't let anyone make you believe otherwise. It is your body and he should respect it.
2006-11-11 16:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old your boyfriend is, but if you are uncomfortable with him, then break up with him. If he is much older than you, say over 18, then I am worried he may be a pervert. Even if he is not over 18, it is still not ok for him to touch you if you dont want him to. Go talk to your school counselor, or talk to your parents if you can.
You are a human being, not someones play toy. Respect yourself and do the right thing for you.
2006-11-11 16:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by designerista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't like it, tell him to stop disrespecting you or hit the road. He knows full well what all those "places" are. You're right, its not funny and it is sickening and he's hoping it will go farther. The more I think about your question the madder I get. I'm almost betting he's way older than you. Tell him to beat it. Especially if he's more than 15.
2006-11-11 16:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. You should nip this in the butt (no funny intended). Where you start out is where you end up. If you allow him to do it; he will only continue. You could flip the script on him and start doing it to him and see how he feels. When the shoe is on the other foot, sometimes it doesn't fit and is uncomfortable and he should stop. If he doesn't and he likes you groping him then... you have another prob. on ur hands but let him know and if he continues then, I guess you'll have to..let him GO!!
2006-11-11 16:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's not going to change. In fact, it will only get worse. If you let him touch you that way, you'll end up with a reputation. You know he's going to blab about it.
There are lots of other boys out there that will treat you with respect. Just make sure you let them know how to respect you from the beginning.
2006-11-11 16:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre obviouslly adult enough to know your not comfortable with this I would suggest breaking it off with him quickly before it escalates to somthing further. If he doesn't stop dont be afraid to tell a parent or teacher but you do need to stop this soon. And if youre going to be with a guy at 13 I would suggest it be supervised and not be alone with him. GOOD LUCK to you..
2006-11-11 17:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I am sure you really like this guy, you have to stand firm and get rid of him. Sounds like he is only interested in 1 thing -- and not your wit or intelligence. Do not let him push you -- you are young and his behavior is border line abusive.
Be strong. Tell him to quit or he is a goner, or better yet, just dump him.
2006-11-11 16:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Beth M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!
If this stuff sickens you, you're too young to be dating. And that's okay! In fact, it's great! Seriously! You have the rest of your life for guys to muck up. Have fun now.
2006-11-11 16:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋