2006-11-11 16:44:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on now.... don't regret not doing it sooner. when he goes miami there will be beach bum chicks every where he won't be thinking about you. go 4 it gal...xx
2006-11-11 21:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by emzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel that your love relationship will be able to handle a long distant relationship then you should tell him that maybe the two of you should try seeing other people. If you think that you can handle a long distance relationship then no. If you are young you should look at other options and not settle for a serious relationship. Your wants, needs, and interest will change over the years. Pray about it and let God lead you to the person that he would have you be with. I never thought about that when I was young. I am on my second marriage and I believe God has led me to my soulmate. I had two relationships that were long distance. My senior year of High School my bf went out of state to college. It didn't work out. After I graduated from High School I had another relationship with a guy who was still in High School it was in MS and I went bk to AL. It didn't work out. We dated again when I moved bk to MS and it still didn't work out. For a person to have a long distance relationship it is built on trust and patience and dedication to the other person. It is hard because you don't get to see them often most of the time. Hope this helps
2006-11-12 00:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes, I would consider it. You should tell him of course, and both of you should talk about your status of being together when he moves. I think it would be too hard for both of you to have a long distant relationship. But I probably would. But I wouln't mention it now, because if you tell him now that you want to date others when he moves, it might end a little earlier than you think. So I would wait to really see what happens. Good luck...
2006-11-12 00:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sure you will date someone else when the person you are going to date after your current boyfriend moves to Orlando.and then another bf when that one moves to Barbados, and then another bf when that one moves to El Paso. and life goes on like that. you will be 70 no kids no man to take care of you, boom a miserable old lady.
Don't you have a brain larger than a size of a pea?
2006-11-12 00:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you make any decision. you should talk with your bf bout your worries. you tell him all your concerns bout his move to miami. by then you can decide whether you shoul continue your relationship or not. so that no one will be hurt, you can part ways in a good way & both of you are still friends.we don't know maybe you'll meant for each other.
2006-11-12 00:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by sakura_nefertina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll are you guys breaking up? cuz that'll probably be the best thing to do..unless u think u can make a long distance relationship work. and plus miami?? miami's full of partying and he's probably gona end up wanting to break up wit u unlesssss he loves u a lot and decides 2 stay faithful
2006-11-12 00:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then you will move with him. If you are just simple boyfriend/ girlfriend and you know you cant have a long distance relationship break up but keep it all on good terms. Tell him you want to remain his friend and keep in touch with him but you would like to see other people.
2006-11-12 00:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by ijtcald 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are planning to split up with your boyfriend then yes. However if you are still going to be together then no, because you would be cheating on him.
Try the long distant relationship thing and then see how you both feel about it, but if you both find that its hard then you should consider splitting up, but don't date another guy before you have officially split
2006-11-12 04:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it depends on how long you all have been together, AND if you truly love him - love him.
Do you think this relationship is WORTH lasting through him moving?
if you don't feel strongly about this relationship, you should get out there and date other people... if not, you're just wasting time being with this guy.
I wish ya the best!
2006-11-12 00:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen long distance relationships fail and succeed it all depends on how commited you are to each other and only you can answer that, together.
2006-11-12 00:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dan Ln 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋