Marriage of 10 years
+ one mistress
= Divorce
--Six months ago was final, new guy in my life...should I?
2006-11-11 16:40:18 · 5 answers · asked by Mark L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look inside yourself
2006-11-11 16:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tell You How It Really Is 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark, you had a wife and a mistress, now you have a guy in your life?
Irrespective of your sexual orientation, this is a divorce we are talking about, not a death of a souse. You could start dating the day you got separated, there is no requirement to wait any particular period of time.
HOWEVER - divorced people should NOT jump into a new relationship too quickly - they need time to find themselves again as individuals after having been in a marriage.
2006-11-12 00:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Gillian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give youself some time to heal your heart. You don't want to get right back into meeting men right away and have it become a rebound relationship. You want to make sure the next relationship you get into is the real thing or somewhat closer to what it is you want and need,
Please remember that a relationship is a two was street,make sure this is what you want. Look for a man you want and is compatible to your needs as well as his. You know what you want you have just lose your way. hey! everyone does, not on is perfect, that's okay dig deep into your soul and write down the important qualities you find and what in a man.When you on a date, talk about wha t you want be upfront and honest.
This is your life if there is not chemistry spark move on stop looking BC it will find you. I know it have happened to me when I wasn't looking..DAMN!! Life is too short!! I found the man I want to spend my life with and vice-versea As you will!.
This is your life and is important, just like picking a Dr for yourself or your kids. Who would you hand your life over too??? that's the true question, only you can answer.
God Bless..........
2006-11-12 01:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 years of marriage- problem: i was faithful , she wasn't. Yes , you should date. I startedasking the same question after a couple months of seperation and haven't regretted it since. BTW... I am recently divorced as of Oct. 1st. Finally!!
2006-11-12 00:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by sgtsdanko2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Get going with your new life and enjoy every bit of it!
2006-11-12 00:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋