my boyfriend cheated with this girl who I know from class. Even though I have forgiven my boyfriend, this girl doesn't feel remorse or shame, and I cannot stand that. Am I being paranoid or is this something I should feel???
2006-11-11 16:36:17 · 9 answers · asked by BlueGirl007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say expecting her to feel guilty for what she did to you is useless as she is more into what she did for her. She probably is very angry with you at the moment because you still have him and she doesn't. Sounds like typical highschool stuff that you all will look back on in a few years and laugh about. Especially that fogiving someone for thinking only of themselves and giving no consideration to your feelings for a moment of physical pleasure they could have gotten from you.
2006-11-11 16:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well actually, she doesn't have to feel anything because although she knew he was taken, she didn't cheat on you, HE DID. So really, it doesn't matter what she feels or thinks. If you have forgiven your boyfriend then that is all that should matter. I mean, do you expect an apology for this girl cuz you aren't going to get one. Just get over it. She doesn't owe you anything because she didn't do anything wrong to you personally, your boyfriend did...If she was your friend then that's something different.
2006-11-11 16:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were crazy to forgive your bf. He cheated on you. You would be better off without him and let her have him. What would she be getting? A bf who cheats. Who cares that she doesn't feel remorse? She is a piece of trash! Does trash feel remorse when it starts to stink? You don't need to worry about forgiving either one of them, and you really should get rid of the bf.
2006-11-11 16:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not being paranoid. She should feel shameful of her actions, she should be the one apologizing to you for what she has done. Try not to worry over her, be happy you have what she wants.
2006-11-11 16:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woman you better return and do it back! sounds like a knee could harm.. yet once you get the kick only good it would desire to be worse. i've got in no way intentionally carried out so even though it sounds like a tremendously solid concept to me. solid success!
2016-10-21 22:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by schrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i have went through something simular to that my ex cheated on me with a girl that i knew i didn't like her but had to see her and yes i hated it and wanted to screem every time i saw her un fortunatly at that time lil did i know he was still getting with this girl behind my back so it was as if she was just laughing in my face when i would see her and he was just stabbing me in my back well thats why he's my ex.. so sad but true yea what you feel is write and usually once a cheater always a cheater......
2006-11-11 18:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by chinadoll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are not being paranoid. She shares the blame (unless she was innocent by truly not knowing he was with you) But I don't blame you one bit for hating the biatch. It would be hard to look at her and not slap the sh-- out of her. Of course I don't condone violence.
2006-11-11 16:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you married?
It's not cheating, it's betrayal, and she's pretty low, huh?
2006-11-11 16:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE FORGIVE YOUR BOYFRIEND,THEN SHE DOES
NOT MATTER AT ALL. HE THE ONE THAT COUNT, IF YOU
ARE ALL RIGHT WITH EVERYTHING. THEN WHY SHOULD
YOU CARE HOW SHE FEEL.
2006-11-11 16:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋