I don't see this boy unless there has been a meeting for us to meet. My friend introduced us and then he asked me out. We went on a date so I have only met him twice. Our date was good. My friend asked him how it was and he said good but didn't expand. We went out last friday and he hasn't contacted me since. I texted him the day after to say I had a good time. My friend told me he's a tad shy. I really want to see him again but don't want to look needy. I texted him yesterday on msn and he didn't respond. Is he not that into me? At the end of our date he complemented my shoes. I hugged him goodbye and he hugged me more tight? What should I do if i want to see him again. Just wait? or move on and if he calls that's cool.
2006-11-11 16:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does he have to be so shy about now that you've been on a date? I would think that "shy" might be getting used as an excuse here. It doesn't matter how shy a guy is, he will call or visit if he is interested. Especially if you have already expressed an interest in him. Most likely, he isn't interested in another date or he doesn't know how to text. Either way, it doesn't feel good to be so uncertain and obsessive does it? Try to remember that he isn't the only boy out there. Try to remember yourself first.
2006-11-11 16:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want to see him again, But i would let him initiate the call at this point. You've left several messages and he hasn't responded so just move on and have fun and if it was meant for y'all to date again it will happen just give it time. Good Luck!
2006-11-12 00:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever stopped and thought about all the dates, that are too shy to call back? And all of them that gotr busy with work, or maybe a family crisis.
CALL HIM> it's 2006
2006-11-12 00:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple message to him, "look, I am interested in seeing you more, if you feel the same, I need you to respond and communicate here with me a little bit." IF he responds, obviously go from there, if he doesn't, move on, he wasn't that interested and your wasting time.
2006-11-12 00:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by zelm511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.Sounds like he's more into himself than he is you. He hasn't returned your advances so he must not be interested. If he were, he would have jumped at the chance to respond. Sorry.
2006-11-12 00:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out if you want to see him again. If he says no, then he doesn't want to. If he says yes, then he does. If he doesn't respond, then he isn't worth your time.
2006-11-12 00:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by GreasyMadness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not to sure but it sounds like hes just really shy and doesnt know what to do.
2006-11-12 00:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the guy is shy, just give it time.
Good Luck.
2006-11-12 00:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on and if he has intrest in you he will call let him make the first move.
2006-11-12 00:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie_kanode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON?
It was one date!
2006-11-12 00:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋