ok so i met this guy on the internet thats 3 years older and he seems nice but.... its like he's telling all the things i want to hear but he's not meaning anything he says & it seems like he's starting to obsess over me and its starting to creep me out what do i do???
2006-11-11 16:30:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful, some guys are really smart, they get to know you to the point they say the exact words you need to hear and that get to you just..to get in your pants. If he has started to creep you out, may be is time that you listen to your gut, you know when things are not quite as they seem to be...just be careful and don't talk to him for a while, also there is the slight possibility that he didn't meant to creep you out and is just part of his personality and you just have started to see him as he really is. who knows, just be careful.
2006-11-11 16:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, it is very easy to be a completely different person online. If he's saying all the things you want to hear but you see through it anyways, that is a huge RED FLAG.
Go on your gut instincts. Especially if he's starting to obsess over you, he can become a stalker. People are capable of doing crazy things. I suggest you stop talking to him and I hope you didn't give him any personal info.
2006-11-12 00:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking with him, if it really is bothering you. If you continue with the communication, it may get worse. Also, you should share this with someone, their are some good people on the net, but there are also some perverts. You really have to be careful when you meet people that you don't really know. Make some good excuse like you have a new boyfriend or your parents won't let you date someone older. Whatever it takes, it may cause a reaction then you may really know what you are dealing with so be careful what you say........Good Luck and end this, is does not sound good to me. I hope you have not given him your personal information, if so you should let someone know immediately.
2006-11-12 00:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that can be tough. You need to put some distance between the two of you. Let him know that you don't want him to obsess over you. Or just ignore him for a little while. There's not easy way to stop what he's doing.
2006-11-12 00:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, block him, take him off your msn or yahoo list. He is probably some 30yr old man trying to creep on you. Don't respond to emails, phone calls. Get away asap. If you feel like your in danger if somehow he starts stalking you etc... call the cops.
GOod Luck!
2006-11-12 00:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get away from him now. He sounds like a stalker. That's the problem with meeting people on the net. Some are psycho.
2006-11-12 00:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r so innocent that u believed this guy whom u hav never seen nor met.U shud stop trusty people on net whom u meet for a while.The fault is at ur side that u gave him space to enter in ur heart.The solution is to avoid him as much s u can.Whenever u feel necessity to talk to him try to divert ur mind to something else.If u will proceed with this relationship more u ll be only suffering later on..
2006-11-12 00:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ishh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stop all kinds of contact with him if he is making you feel uncomfortable. I hope you didn't provide him any of your personal information (e.g. telephone #, home address). If this is not as serious as it sounds then just plainly tell him that you do not want to have anything to do with him anymore. Be careful and good luck.
2006-11-12 00:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it creeps you out stop it now and tell him you are not interested. Your feelings are telling you its not good.. There are a lot of creeps out there.
2006-11-12 00:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by seekingwidow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is creeping you out. And ask him if he is a stalker! Or just plain forget him and move on.
2006-11-12 00:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by darlene h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋