I keep encountering this problem where I'm out with a woman, and suddenly she'll say something pointed, then excuse herself and leave.
Three different women:
1. In an art museum, she's standing up to a painting and I can hear her say, "Make up your mind" forcefully yet under her breath. Then from there I take her to a shrine in the woods and I'm telling her about it, she tears up... after that I'm in the "friend zone".
2. Having drinks at a jazz caberet, we had good conversation, though admittedly not much flirting. She excuses herself in between songs, says snidely "Good luck with that weight lifting" (my passion at the time) and then doesn't accept a second date.
3. With a group now, good conversation and radiating affection with one very warm and boistorous woman. Then she purposely cuts me off, though still warm with others. Says something about being disappointed I switched to water (from wine). Not much else. Said "bye" to everyone else when she left, but not to me.
2006-11-11 16:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by Kailash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Actually, I've got the conversation part down pretty well, I can tell they enjoy talking with me. Smiles, eye contact, all great and very natural. Good chemistry. I enjoy myself too.
2006-11-11 16:43:08 · update #1
hopefully you werent bragging about all your previous sex encounters thats usually what does it that will crush the most positive relationship or date ,record yourself nexttime and just see if you do that.
2006-11-11 16:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking at their breasts when talking or making eye contact? Do you have an erection thats obvious and just keep talking? I would just hunt one of them down and insist on an answer. And I would mention this to the next one you meet right away and ask her to please give you and answer if she suddenly feels the urge to leave.
2006-11-11 16:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by AllAmericanGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double date with a good friend and ask him to observe your interractions with your date. Then you can ask him what he thinks. It sounds like you are talking too much about yourself and not enough about your date. You have not given enough info here to figure it out.
2006-11-11 16:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you stink or you talk too much about yourself...That's all I can come up with given what you have described...There is a lot you aren't saying.
2006-11-11 16:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you saying to these women?
2006-11-11 16:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋