is it wrong to worry what other people think? beauty is only skin deep, and he treats me wonderful, so do looks really matter?
2006-11-11 16:17:15 · 25 answers · asked by Brittney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm into this guy I thought wasn't very attractive at first but let me tell you sweetie, it's what's INSIDE that counts. You don't need to worry about other people. Just realize you have a winner! If you think he's cute then he's cute. for the record, I think this guy i'm into is GORGEOUS! different than what I'm used to? definitly! but also cute! and you have to take that into consideration. one more thing.: women will talk themselves into thinking a guy is cute BECAUSE he treats them well. I've never seen them do it because he's rich, though. it's always been about him being a good person. so maybe in time you will really fall for him.
2006-11-11 16:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks should never matter if you truly love him. Lets say he's attractive, and then he gets into an accident and his face gets all messed up...you gonna stop loving him??? thats not right, you should love that person for who he is and how he treats you not his looks. You'd be surprised how many not so attractive guys treat a woman better then the attractive guys.
2006-11-11 16:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in today's society, looks does matter. There is pressure to fit a certain standard. On another note, obviously there was something that made him attractive to you right, besides looks? If you can withstand the looks(nof others when you are out, the snide remarks, or envision one day maybe your children looking like him; then go ahead. The saying is as such, 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"; as long as you are beholding don't worry about what any1 else thinks!
2006-11-11 16:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't if his looks are an issue to you then you need to question yourself are you really in love with him or the things he does for you. Because if you truly love someone he's a knock out to you because his personality makes him that way. Other people aren't the ones in love with this guy you are so it doesn't matter what they think.
2006-11-11 16:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks Really arnt what matter If he treats you right and he loves you and you love him nothing should get in your way! And Gosh if he is beautiful inside its not gonna matter what he looks like. :)
I wish you guys the best of luck
God Bless
Alli
2006-11-11 16:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by allisay2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS A TOUGH ONE!!! A physical attraction is imporatant!!! HOWEVER, you have to look beyond the physical attributes. A "nice" looking person will not necessarily make you happy, it was what the person has inside that matters!!! What other people think is not important, it comes down to what you are happy with!!
2006-11-11 16:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks really don't matter at all. You love the guy and he treats you wonderful-You are very lucky-don't let him go!
2006-11-11 16:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the entire planet is in bed with you, eating dinner with you.... kind of like the Verizon network, than who gives a *(£$)@(£*$)@(£* what someone looks like. It all depends on how shallow you are and how shallow others are. The older you get, the more you realize that if you had cancer, or if you lost your job or you had a miscarriage or your parents died that the person you're with becomes much more important if they support you rather than if they "look good".
2006-11-11 16:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks DO NOT matter
it's the first thing you notice in a person
but it's not what matters
look at it this way..
10 years from now you're not gonna wanna be with a guy
who is a complete ***,hott,but a complete ***
you're gonna wanna be with a guy that treats you well,nice,and justt everyything you've ever wanted
2006-11-11 16:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what they look like... it's their personality that counts... and if they have a good personality and good looking then you got lucky... but don't ask for more than you are given... he treats you well, you love him, so it doesn't matter how ugly or handsome he is!
2006-11-11 16:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by Darth_Spaz353202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋