ok me and this guy started dating during the summer. we never really talked. when school started we talked more and more. finally he told me that he loved me. and he tells me that he would die for me and that he would do anything for me im only 12 and he is 15. do you think we really love each other . or what would you call it? plz help
2006-11-11 15:44:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-11 15:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by abimono 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ROFLMAO, sorry. You are 12 and he is 15 and he would die for you? Are you kidding? No you aren't in love, you haven't even grown up yet or had a life, how could you know what love is? I'd call it two kids liking each other......go ride your bikes or go to a Saturday afternoon movie. Take time and grow up, you aren't ready for dating. I'd bop you over the head if you were my daughter. Why did you mom let you date? You are way too young, are you ready to have sex and get pregnant and catch an STD? Do you even know what an STD is?
2006-11-11 15:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre too young to really be in love
you got a crush on this guy probably cos hes a bit older and you obviously think hes fit or you wouldnt have started dating him.
when youre so young ....(12 years old!! i can remember some of the girls i had crushes on when i was that old...heavy stuff!!) the feelings you have are so intense because there are new types of hormone flooding through your body...i dont want to offend but at 12 years old you may or may not have started your period and its all a bit hectic emotionally at this time ...and for the next couple of years to be honest.
I can remember how I used to feel and its going to be very similar....butterflies in the stomach when you see them..even when you think about them...every time youre on your own you find that youre thinking about them...every time you look at them your heart jumps inside and you have such a good feeling about them and the rest of the world in general.. the sun seems brighter the air seems fresher you wake up in the morning with a smile on your face....i could go on...but im sure you will recognise some of that..
your boyfriend is probably in a similar situation.. with boys developing a couple of years later than girls...so he probably believes that he loves you (((OR HE JUST WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU .....DONT LET HIM PRESSURE YOU... OK... IF IT IS TRUE LOVE SEX CAN WAIT A COUPLE OF YEARS AND JUST ENJOY IT WHILE IT LASTS..PLEASE)))
my advice to you is talk about this with your mum or an older sister/brother..an auntie..a teacher..your dad probably wont be much use unless your dad is really easy to talk to and doesnt get stressed easily!!
just remember what i put in capital letters theres a very good reason why its against the law ...
good luck hope you manage to sort it out.
2006-11-13 18:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by simon_b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you're 12 & he's 15? I think both of you are too young for this. Sure, you can have feelings for each other, but romantic love is too much for you at your age. No offense.
Teenage & adolescent years can be difficult times. When the hormones start to kick in, they cause all kinds of feelings & urges, which can be confusing & hard to handle.
It's very important, at this time, that you do nothing that you'll regret later. In other words, DO NOT sleep with him.
Be his friend, if you can, but no more. It might be hard to take at 1st, but you'll be better off in the long run.
For now, enjoy life, grow & discover yourself. In time, you'll be ready for love & you'll meet that special person.
Good luck & God bless.
2006-11-11 16:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think at the age of fifteen it's still to early to tell whether u really love someone or not just stay friends first and really, I mean really get to know each other cause if u don't u could find something out later that u really don't wanna know or that could break u up later. never jump into anything always make sure its what u raelly wantno matter what the situation.
2006-11-11 15:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 12 evryone goes through it. No your not in love it's just a feeling because if you were in love you would know it. You will understand when you grow up. It's kinda like puppy love but not yet, he could be trying to get into your pants.
2006-11-11 15:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL its ok young one your not in love. Just sprung I don't know hwat love is honestly i dont care but i know the first time isnt love I've had that first one already it seems like it but its not trust me Believe someone whos been down that road.
2006-11-11 15:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just following a natural phase of life, that and his hormones are raging inside him, He probably loves you but not in the way that will last a lifetime or more than 4 or 5 more months...
Wait you both are very very young....and please do not have any type of sexual contact...not yet!
2006-11-11 15:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Pi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well 12 is a little young but love is for any age if you love him whats to stand in your way unless he gives you bad vibes then stick with your instinks and tell him to back off good luck,best wishes-matt
2006-11-11 15:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by mazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 12? Don't you think that you are a little young for fooling around, eh? Shame on you!
As for your little friend, tell him to f' off...
2006-11-11 15:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 is a little way to young to be thinking about this ! Concentrate on school and not on boys yet . Take your time and don't get pregnant
2006-11-11 15:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋