Please tell me your experiences. Should I tell him about my rebound? (We are still best friends, and I want to keep him as my friend)
2006-11-11 15:41:14 · 5 answers · asked by twinkle_in_my_panties 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
REBOUNDS NEVER WORK!! too much raw emotions..
the way your feeling----that feeling is very normal
just hard to let go of the past--because we have that comfortable feeling with it
do yourself a huge favor---MOVE ON!
don't become a slave to the past relationships you have had!
2006-11-11 15:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebounds do not work, they not only hurt you but sometimes hurt others. Yes, I tried rebound and I destroyed my relationship with the guy I was on the rebound from and hurt him deeply because I dated his friend. I found out too late that he had really care about me until I got involved with his friend. After that he had very little respect for me, I also hated myself for what I did. I knew that he would never except me again no matter what I said or did, as he was no longer interested. It took me several years to get over the pain I felt and the pain that I caused another person. I knew in the end that I lost someone who I truly loved.
2006-11-11 23:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I've found that if you try to talk to someone else because your trying to get over someone if he's a guy that really has good communication about him it can help you to get over someone alot easier but the thing about that is if you become serious about that person and he doesn't want a serious relationship then it seems as if you're right back to thinking about the ex all over again. The best thing to do is to go out with friends and have fun and try to mingle alot to keep it off your mind. And if you are just friends why should you tell him everything that u do I'm pretty sure your ex doesn't tell you EVERYTHING that he does. Good Luck!
2006-11-11 23:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think rebounds work...it NEVER seems like they do...but then again I have never really had a real boyfriend before. I'm guessing it's because you're always thinking of the reason why you have a rebound in the first place...then it makes you think abotu the guy or girl you loved...
With that said, only time will tell.
Good luck! ^_^
2006-11-11 23:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on! You do NOT need a woman, or a man for a lover! You have to be happy with yourself! Stop trying to tie you with others
2006-11-11 23:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋