Is this ok or cheating?? desperate 4 answers.?
If u r dating some1, is it ok to flirt with other guys?? my friend says i do all the time and thinks it's cheating.
is a simple kiss in the lips cheating??
would you tell ur bf or wait 4 him 2 find out??
he knows that i flirt cuz it's who i am, but not about the rest. If i make a personal goal to stop should i still tell him??
would you confess if you "cheated"(no sex tho)
2006-11-11 15:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i be honest or wait and see if im busted??
2006-11-11 15:42:39 · update #1
the guys are friends of him.
2006-11-11 15:51:06 · update #2
i think it depends on how much you flirt. if he knows you flirt then i think its ok but i think with the whole kiss thing, you should tell him beause i personally think that is cheating. put it in this perspective: if my boyfriend kissed another girl on the lips would i i think he was cheating or not? i would tell him i wouldnt want to lie to my boyfriend.
hope that helps. im sorry if it doesnt.
good luck with everything.
2006-11-11 15:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by *stay*sweetly*numb* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, all of that stuff is bad. The person your dating, you need to be commited to them! If your doing things behind their back.. just end it. Whats the point of still being with him.. when he would find out what u were doing, be sad, hate you, and many other things! If your dating that guy or whatever, and like him, end the relationship with the other man and decide if your going to tell him the truth or not. Dont be a bad person.. and cheating is bad. Say what you want, but i think you should take my advice.
2006-11-11 23:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by SCSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your lips are touching anything on anybody other than your boyfriend, it's cheating.
If you can make this your personal goal (keep your body parts to yourself), then don't freak out.
If you need to ease your conscience, tell your boyfriend that your friend pointed out that you flirt too much, with everybody and that you think she might be right. Tell him that you don't want to disrespect him and that you are going to try really hard to keep it in check. Ask him to let you know if you do or say anything that makes him feel uncomfortable. That way he knows your serious and doesn't feel like you're planning on cheating on him or dumping him every time you slip up.
2006-11-11 23:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by soccermomw3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People classify flirting in different ways. Some people believe that treating members of the opposite sex as if they were humans is flirting. But generally, going as far as any sort of physical relationship, such as kissing, is considered cheating. I find that honesty with your partner is the only way to maintain a truly healthy relationship. Some people say you shouldn't ever tell them, but if you don't it will hang there between you until you do.
2006-11-11 23:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Varlis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss on the lips is cheating in a sense. Not to the degree of having sex with some one but shows disrespect to your BF. Would you like it if he kissed other girls? If u still wanna kiss other guys and dont care if he kisses girls then maybe he shouldnt be your boyfriend.
2006-11-11 23:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should tell him, he's going to be hurt, but if he finds out from someone else, it will hurt a lot worse.
and about the flirting and kissing, yes, it is cheating. and before you think about doing it again, ask yourself if you'd want your boyfriend doing the same thing you did with other girls.
Good Luck
2006-11-11 23:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not cheating but it's also not right and if you are a big flirt wth lots of guys even if you have a boyfriend, then your not commited to have a boyfriend yet. until you can go without flirting with every guy then your ready to date.
2006-11-11 23:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE THEN YES IT COULD BE
CONSIDER CHEATING, A SIMPLE ANYTHING CAN BE
A PROBLEM. IF YOU LIKE TO FLIRT THAT FIND BUT
IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND YOU NEED TO
STOP IT. SOME PEOPLE HAVE A REAL PROBEM WITH
THE PERSONT THAT THEY LIKE ALL IN OTHER PEOPLE
FACES. BE HONEST WITH HYOUR SELF AND THE PERSON
THAT YOU WITH. IT MAY BE THAT YOU ARE NOT READY
TO REALLY SETTLE DOWN. THAT FINE.
2006-11-11 23:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is cheating find some more new answers and stop repeating your self u sound like your slow
2006-11-11 23:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you just ask this question a few minutes ago. YES ITS CHEATING.
2006-11-11 23:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋