Okay,there are these 2 boys:Ted & Justin right.And ive known justin since last year and he asked me out on many diffferent occasions but i allways said no until this year.now we are in a very serious relationship and he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever and i agreed.but before i had feelings for Justin i liked Ted.it was nothing major then but now people are starting to say that me and him would be great together.And at that point i started to really think about my feelings for him and realized im really not over him.im still going out with Justin but cant get over the fact that i still like Ted.It really bothers me bcause i allways wonder what could have been and what if? and things like that and i dont know what to do about it.Iwish there was a way to tell Justin that i still have feelings for Ted without breaking his heart.i want to just go out with Ted and find out if hes really the one for me and then if hes not go back 2 Justin but i no thtwont work so wht do i do?
2006-11-11 15:39:57 · 7 answers · asked by Showcaster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also i really am not a mean or shallow person,Ted did ask me out in a weird kind of way on the phone and i said i didnt say yes or no bcause i was going out with Justin
2006-11-11 15:42:20 · update #1
do whats right for you....stop dating them both...let some time pass...then you can think clearly
2006-11-11 15:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about what is the best thing to do? If this Ted guy really does like you then he should be willing to wait but if it really bothers you this much you need to decide which is more important to you Justin Or Ted. Once you figure that out then tell justin how you feel and it doesnt really matter really how you tell him cause he is gonna get hurt if you decide that you want to go through with trying to go out with Ted. If justin loves you as much as he says he does he'll try to understand..
2006-11-11 23:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's what i say, Find a job you like and you'll never work a day in your life, this goes true with relationships if you think you'll b happier somewhere else. you wont have to try as hard to b in the relationship it'll b something you like so go for your heart. hey break ups happen it's life. O ya here's a suggestion you're young don't committ to any long term situation. Because baby things change!
2006-11-11 23:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you broke up wit ted then he might have moved on like you. Dont dump your boyfriend for someone who broke up wit you. And byt he way, you sound kinda young (im guessin 13-17) so dont think about it too much.
2006-11-11 23:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with debbie.hun,u gotta take some time to think about.plus if ur doubting ur relationship or thinking about someone else it may not be fair to justin.take some time to think about the situation.
2006-11-11 23:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by x_punkrockprincess_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man...there's too much unnecessary drama in life.
2006-11-11 23:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by MasterOfThePuppets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEARCH your HEART. AND be true to your self. AND dont listen to people. (except your parents)
2006-11-11 23:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋