How can i dump him?

Question

I have been seeing this guy for 2 months but he is definitely not that into me since he calls every other day and he almost never asks me out, but he call every week and he says things like he likes me but I have given him to come around and he hasn´t I haven´t mentioned the subject but I think it´s time for me to dump him. So what do i do should I just stop answering the phone or should I tell him something and if yes what should I tell him?

Answer 1

tell him! dont just avoid him! thats the wrong thing to do, just be nice about it but if you think hes not into you he either well isnt or hes shy and doesnt open up to people as fast as you do. but whatever you decide him calling everyother day isnt soo bad. my guy was calling everyday and id see him everyday and well he was too clingy so he prolly just wants some space. hope it all works out!

Answer 2

I am confused. You say that he only calls you, he seldom asks you out and he doesn't come around your house to see you either. It doesn't sound like you have enough of a relationship to "dump" him. Is there some reason he does not ask you out - is he financially strapped right now, but coming to visit you at your home would not be out in that case, but he hasn't taken you up on your invitation. I think that he is "sort of" interested in you, but not seriously, or a lot. I would not stop talking to him all together but I think that I would cut the phone calls short unless the things that he says about you lead you to believe there is more future here than it would seem. Lots of fish swimming around in that sea!

Answer 3

Tell him. And next time instead of "giving him opprotunities" just come out and ask if he wants to hang out. Guys do not read minds and it is often a delicate balance between seeming like you are not that interested and seeming like you are a psycho stalker. Its hard to get it right, some go one way and some go the other. Take away the mystery, tell him.

Answer 4

ok dumping is kinda of my think so you can dump him by the following
1.text(i think it dumb by its a way)
2.on the phone(if you can't see him like you guys can't go someway or something)
3.face too face(i prefer this one)
now if you do face too face be sure he doesn't dump you first and let it out easy like tell him something like"baby i don't think its going to work out"he meant say "oh i didn't think it would neither"but some who say that doesn't really mean it.
hope this help and good luck

Answer 5

2 months isn't very long but its enough time to know that he's waisting your time.Maybe he has a cash flow problem or someone on the side.If you think you can do better just tell him "i cant see us together in 5 years let alone 5mins so im sorry, im looking for a partner that takes my heart away, someone i can grow old with".Dont leave it to long coz it gets harder to break away.Try to always be up front and you can save yourself alot of time. ;)

Answer 6

Trust your instincts. You deserve someone who's into you. You don't owe him anything. Tell him no more, that you've just gotten busy elsewere. Then hang up or leave. Don't stick around for an argument.

Answer 7

maybe hes shy
just give him some time or call him and talk about it
it should work out hehe <3
if not then call him or meet up with him outside and tell him that you just wanna be friends
hope everything works out, love!

Answer 8

Just call him up and say "I am sorry you are a really sweet guy but I think I need more adventure and more lively relationship,I hope we can be friends!".

Answer 9

I would tell him straight up how u feel, wouldnt you want to know the truth if it was u? Besides if he's not that "into" you it shouldnt be a big deal.

Answer 10

Just tell him bluntly, "I'm sorry, but I don't like games. I want a man who knows what he wants." Or word it how you want it. If you don't answer his calls, he'll probably keep calling until you talk to him.

Good luck!