ALright, i've decided to tell my friend everything; how i love her, how i spend nearly every waking moment thinking about her, how just two weeks ago i had a dream about her. In this dream she was pregnant with my child, (and no, it was not a dirty dream). I'm 17, but honestly, after waking up, i wished that it had really happened. I'm just going to blurt it all out and tell her that i can and have pictured myself spending the rest of my life with her. Thanks for all of your guys advise.
2006-11-11 15:27:43 · 15 answers · asked by screwsinhip 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good 4 u
2006-11-11 15:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by cool chic 2no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW well writing a letter its not a bad idea but i think u need too get her in some place when there only you and her and then tell her how u feel hey she meant have the same feeling for you but if it doesn't work out i hope you guys can still be friend
but i hope it well work out good luck
2006-11-11 23:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thas a big step man. Are you willing to throw away the friendship you guys have? Cuz that is definitely a possible outcome. Only do it if you know for sure that you can continue being her friend even if her feelings for you are not mutual. If not, you're in for some serious frustration.
2006-11-11 23:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Stymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like love to me. If you love her than for sure let her know and if she accepts your love than everything will be off to a great start. However, slow down and have fun with this young lady before you rush into marriage or having children. If you and her really love each other, then love can endure. This will allow both of you time to finish school or other things you need to do before you settle down. It will be all the greater if you and her prepare, as sometimes the excitement is in knowing that you love each other enough to prepare for your future together.
2006-11-11 23:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, has she gave any clues she likes you in that way....don't tell her all that. You will scare her. Say something casual...like, if you were my girl, I would treat you like a queen. or something like that and see how she reacts...or maybe I love being with you...you can laugh these off if she doesn't feel the same way. I know these emotions are strong and you feel like screaming it at the top of your lungs and the what-ifs alone can drive you crazy...but you can let her know how you feel without actually saying it like that at first. Ease in to it.. take cues from her reactions...GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-11 23:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Shonda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say something like this: Hey _____ , I wanna tell you my most favorite part of the day. She'll say what is it?
you: My favorite part is seeing you. (Then describe a daily routine that she does that you know of)I can't help this feeling when i look at you, It makes me smile and i want to tell you that i cant supress this anymore. What i wouldn't give to hold you close to my body, and keep you warm when we're cold. I wanna sing in your ear while we dance to slow music. I wanna show you what i hold inside. To see you everyday is heaven. to give hugs is like angels sent from above. If i could kiss you i dont know what feeling that will evoke but honestly. (Then put urr hand on her neck and with your thumb rub the side of her face like near her lip) Seeing you beings me joy that I've never felt. (Then wait for response.) If at worst you dont succeed then at least you tried. Thats better than 40 years from now wondering what mighta happend. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-11 23:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i really think that u should just take it slow and not rush things start hanging out with her by yallselves and get to no her really well.then ease slowly into all these details.i would definitely be freaked out if a friend came out and told me all these things.they are very sweet but if u tell her all at once she may get scared and back off.
2006-11-11 23:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Waiting for Prince Charming!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good for you that your doing it....take it slow when you tell her though....i wish i coulda done the same with my guy friend and now i live in regret of it everday because the time is over now....so Congrats...and the best of luck to you hun!
2006-11-11 23:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter. Ease into it.
I gotta do the same thing, only problem is she is more of an aquaintence and I think she has a boyfriend.
2006-11-11 23:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are such a sweetheart! this is about the most sweet and romantic thing I've ever read, and I can see by what you've written, you really love this girl! just tell her what you've told all of us! it sounds perfect, don't change a thing! now, go tell her!
I'm so happy for you both!
2006-11-11 23:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋