okay i have a boyfriend and he's a real nice guy but when i'm hugging him i always feel that he feels weird around me because of the way he acts around me. I was thinking that the reason why he acts this way is because he has never been in a real physical relationship with anyone before, is my theory right or wrong? what do you think?
2006-11-11 15:24:25 · 20 answers · asked by Kidd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be gay!
2006-11-11 15:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Chew my Fat 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I woud have to ask what type of family he comes from? Are they an affectionate family? Have you ever seen him be affectionate towards another person, or another person towards him? If so, does he act the same way? Based on my previous experience, if they are not comfortable with it now, its not going to change. Think about if you want to build a relationship with someone who won't return your affection, not because he doesn't care, just because he's not that kind of person. Honey, it gets old real quick!
2006-11-11 15:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Donna N 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes of course that's why hes acting this way, give him time to get the feeling of being in a relationship Good luck
2006-11-11 15:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by aliens? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-11-11 15:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he didnt grow up in a home where touching or emotional words is involved such as hugging or saying i love you ect ... i grew up like that my parents never said i love your huged me and when i first met my husband i didnt know what to do when he hugged me ... and when he said i love you the first time i really didnt know what to say in fact a wk later he said is there something wrong?? he said i love you and i need to know if you love me back or if we need to break up before my heart gets broke? and i said i love you back... there are very few people i say that to and i have to mean it ... buttt i am now a hugger lol i hug everyone just give him time or ask him about it
2006-11-11 15:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this behavior is new and he didn't do it before, I'd question whether something was wrong. If this is how he is, you can probably talk to him about it and it wont be a big deal.
2006-11-11 15:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you are right the relationship is all new to him so much that it feels weird to you give him time to ajust to the new relationship
2006-11-11 15:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was thinking that he might be homosexual. Or he might be cheating on you, and feeling guilty.
Why don't you get him comfortable, if possible, in a setting where he feels at ease, and then ask him to be honest with you? Honest about his feelings, I mean.
2006-11-11 15:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think your right! he prolly isnt used to the fact of having a girlfriend, and he just has to get used to the fact that its not just him anymore that he has to worry about. And he'll need sometime to adjust but it'll be worth it. hopefully for you it wont take that much time! goodluck and give it time!
2006-11-11 15:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he has never had sex, he must be very shy about it and this may come off as weird behaviour but in reality it could be fear.
2006-11-11 15:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It might be that . Maybe he doesn't want to push you into anything .
2006-11-11 15:26:36 · answer #11 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋