man i have this boyfriend and he live in a diffrent city and i dont wanna cheat on him but he is gone and hes comming back in the summer what am i gon do 4 real man. im realy tryin to throw out some vibes to him tryin to say man i need a boyfriend thats here with me straight up.
2006-11-11 15:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by Mz.Lovin Graze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound pretty horny,,,,,am I right? I say go for it girl...go girl go!!!
2006-11-11 15:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he leave? Was it his personal decision or is it for work or school? If he has no control over it then you shouldn't hold it against him. Tell him how you feel and let him know that you need a boyfriend that's with you and break it off with him. Then find someone else that has the time to devote to you.
If you really love him you'll wait for him, but if you aren't serious about the relationship there's no point in letting it drag on if you're not happy.
2006-11-11 15:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are going to have to do a little better than throwing out some vibes. Have you thought about using real words that make the specific statement that you need to break up with him in order to date someone more local? You didn't just throw out some vibes in order to ask for this advice, you came out and asked.
2006-11-11 15:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is sort of hard to understand what you are asking...i am assuming you are wondering if you should give him an ultimatum regarding your strong desire to keep him from leaving again, like you are tired of having a long distance relationship. well, i say you ought to tell him that. if you are in a strong relationship worth keeping strong and you are being faithful to him then it is worth asking him what is to loose if he was to move permanently to where you live or move wherever he is working at. you need to decide how much longer you want to have a long distance relationship is really what it is about right?
2006-11-11 15:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
He's not gonna hear you try to tell him how great he is and how it's not him, it's you. Blah,blah,blah.
Tell him the truth.
Tell him you're ready for a boyfriend that can be with you more. Tell him that you have needs and you don't want to end up cheating on him.
He's not gonna like. But, you gotta take care of you.
He's not gonna be around to do it.
2006-11-11 15:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by soccermomw3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him you can't handle a long distance relationship. If things were different and you could see each other then things might've been different. You had fun and think he's a great guy but the distance is has killed your relationship.
2006-11-11 15:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by rockmonkey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really feel that you need man that's close to you, it's time to break up with the long distance one.
2006-11-11 15:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a vibrator? If you feel compelled to cheat though then you can't continue with a relationship: it's not fair on your boyfriend and is totally immoral. Be fair on him.
2006-11-11 15:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't know or aren't ready to be faithful. Give up the poor boyfriend, be honest already.
2006-11-11 15:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Zoey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant wait on him then do the decent thing and let him go and then you can find someone else dont cheat on him... thats not rite... if its love you wont cheat anyway.. my husband worked out of state for 2 months and i didnt cheat.......
2006-11-11 15:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! Long Distance Relationships...one of the factors is that they test your fidelity! Is he really that bad to ditch??? Would you want him doing that to you?!?!
2006-11-11 15:26:50 · answer #11 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋