How do convey your message to your partners about your sexual needs?
Especially to a conservative women...
Let's say we have certain needs and fantasies... how do you break the news to your partners of what pleasing you and what not...?
Both guys and girls... please give me ur opinions...
2006-11-11 15:08:13 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be!
I recommend being physically and verbally affectionate ALL the time, so there isn't a sharp divide between "no sex" and "sex". That is, it just becomes part of the natural flow of things, so it doesn't need to feel awkward.
Don't assume that she isn't interested even if she seems conservative. Sometimes it is the women who appear conservative who are wild once you get them going.
Of course, if you have had a conversation about this and she has flat out said, "NO", then you have to respect that.
2006-11-11 15:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked lots of questions. So in order,
1. yes
2. quietly talk about things with your partner as you do them- as you are rubbing her shoulders tell her whether or not you like your shoulders rubbed- then go from there.
3. if you get into an uncomfortable position tell her that it isn't comfortable and suggest a different one.
2006-11-11 23:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A conservative woman will not let go no matter what you say to her. Now, if you have a woman who is open-minded, and a little horney, you could probably get her to do just about anything you want.
2006-11-11 23:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha that is funny to think about! I think it would be ideal to talk and tell someone what you like but then again you might want to try it to see if they respond. I don;t know maybe talking is better because at least your feelings are not hurt in the bedroom.
2006-11-11 23:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great sex comes with communication.
And communication comes with comfort.
I think time makes you comfortable with each other and therefore more at ease with communicating what your desires are. I wouldn't suggest asking for a golden shower on the first date if you catch my drift.... : )
2006-11-11 23:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by just wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him/her how you feel and let them know that you need to have it before what ever date and theyl'l do it that night with you if they cooperate. ( Tell them that youl'l brake up if they don't)
2006-11-11 23:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by greensword 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋