problems with roomates?

Question

i dont think i can get along with my roomates in my hostel.i got two,but they just seem to talk to each other.i tried to get along with them,like talking to them,making jokes,but it doesnt work.the problem is im quiet so this makes things worse.it irritates me to hear them talking bout their life,their friends.i want that that too,but its hard cuz they are getting so close these days.u see,they are not close 5 months ago,but now,argh, i hate being in my room cuz im the only one who has to shut my mouth!it is just so boring.u gotta help me.talking to them doesnt work,that i know.

Answer 1

first ask if there is a problem the next get out and do something invite yourself in a group do anything just get out of that room and quit being a depressed person

Answer 2

just say hello, how are you and keep it movin. I had roomates like that too, but they would speak to me/interact when they werent arround each other, weirdos, Eventually they will feel they are being shut out and get the picture, or you could ask them how their days have gone, offer to go for a bite to eat or drink, kind of draw them out. Are you all of the same race? I ask because if they seem like they are discriminating, dont waste your time, just be polite.but find real friend and move if you can.

Answer 3

Can you transfer to another room or just not spend much time in your room? Why do you have to shut your mouth? Maybe if you keep talking, they will get the message. Let them know you want to be friends too and wonder why they seem to be excluding you. Be honest with them, if they still snub you, then you know you are dealing with snobs.

Answer 4

you shld shifted in other room where you have to share room with any guy then you will definetly enjoy your time over there i dont think you have to talk alot.............because you will not have time for talk then