I have this problem my boyfriend is out of town and I'm seeing this boy named Bobby that has a girlfriend even know I don't like his girlfriend it's wrong for him to be cheating on her. I like him but I need help because we still want to see eachother but people who we go with are holding us back.
2006-11-11 14:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shaunda,
GOOD GIRL!!! This is a hard one, but you are ahead because at least you recognized you had a problem and you are looking for the right kind of help.
So you want to stop being attracted to Bobby because he's bad for you and involved with another girl, right?
Here are a few things that may help, but the only guarantee is a lot of time and your own self control.
1) Get busy with a job or ANYTHING that keeps
you too busy to get in trouble or to see or talk to him.
2) Tell a close girlfriend that you need help, explain the situation and ask them to keep you company and help you fight this off. Get as many close friends as you can to help with this, as long as you're SURE they are friends you can trust.
3) Don't go out alone, don't go to the places you know he goes to, don't answer when he calls, and avoid him like the plague. If he asks why or says he's hurt tell him you're both involved and you don't tolerate "players".
He will gain a lot of respect for you if you stick to this, and so will your OWN boyfriend.
If Bobby and you both end your relationships and get together years later he will know that he can trust you. Will you know whether or not you can trust him?
Good Luck : )
Calico.Kitty
2006-11-11 15:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've got some issues.
First of all, you smarmy wee-otch, you, I think you should go to heck for durn well cheatin' on yo man. An yo boy-toy is cheating on his gurl so you'll both end up in the flamy-place.
Seriously, if you both are involved with other people, you need to end it right away. If he's cheating on his girlfriend right now, it's clear he doesn't really care about commitment to other people. How do you know it will be different for you?
Maybe in a week you'll post the same question, except this time it will involve you cheating on Bobby.
2006-11-11 14:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should hold you back, Let us put it this way, what about if it is the other way around? You are the gf of the boy, how would you feel? Remember karma girl, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Drop him and look for someone else unattached. If he can do it with his current gf , he can also do it to you.
2006-11-11 14:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the undeniable fact that she follows you and attempt to stick around with the two certainly one of you ability that she feels that there is a few affinity with one or the two certainly one of you. Have a solid talk along with her approximately her weaknesses and attempt exchange her. Cherish the relationships you are able to build with people. she would be able to be grateful to you sooner or later.
2016-10-21 22:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by grewe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump ur bf then
you're a cheater
2006-11-11 14:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can't possibly be as stupid to not only LIVE this situation, but think about it AND type it out and NOT see how ridiculous it sounds..
2006-11-11 14:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bf that you are cheating on him then dump him and tell Bobby to say that to his gf
2006-11-11 14:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try exercising a little self control.
2006-11-11 14:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the loser [[ur bf. no fense]]
and if bobby really does like you more than her. he'll dump her too.
then you two can be together.
2006-11-11 14:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not get caught thats the only rule
2006-11-11 14:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋