I really like this guy.. i've liked him for soo long... and i dont knwo if he likes me or not. he sort of has a girlfriend.
when he and i are alone together he's really flirty, like really touchy feely and like foolin around sorta deal. but around other poeple he isnt, and i dont know what to do.. he knows i really like him... i jsut need some help! how can i get him to see how good for hm i am...
2006-11-11 14:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by kale 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what i mean by sort of is she isnt certain if she wants to be with him... they hardly see eachother... and she will break up wit him if her frends say so... so its like... they are going out.. but not really.
2006-11-11 14:57:48 · update #1
Well the reason he is not openly flirting with you when other people is around is because he is a smart guy he has a g/f so he does not want anyone telling her and having her get a red azz with him about it..lol you could say to him when he is alone with you .how come you only flirt with me when we are alone. maybe then he could give you some insight as to why he does this. but how can you get him to see you are really good for him . i don't you think you can . maybe he just See's you as someone he wants to flirt with and have a good time with behind his g/f's back . he might be a player.
2006-11-11 14:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he has a gf! There is no such thing as "sort of" having a gf or bf. Either you do, or you don't. First off, he's flirting and touchy with you because he does like you or he's trying to get in your pants! Secondly, you don't want to be with a guy who is cheating on his gf. You might be in the same situation when he gets bored with you. Move on and find a real man!
2006-11-11 22:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a guy,
Personally he sounds like he's kind of a player but doesn't want other peolle to know it, If you were his girlfriend and you found out that he was doing this withh you do you think you'd be piszed.???
You gotta consider this, He has a girlfriend, I just wouldn't consider him to be available, Maybe the only thing he likes about you is that you like him.
2006-11-11 22:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA. He sort of has a girlfriend? What if you were sort of his girlfriend?? How would you feel about his behavior with some other girl????? He sounds like a guy who blurs the lines, and that is someone you don't want to mess with. He needs to keep it straight. You are worth it, and if he doesn't drop everything to be with you, then forget it....but while he has more then one thing going....RUN
2006-11-11 22:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Reese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes only flirty when your alone that usually means its solely for sex purposes and no flirting around other people is a sign he has a girlfriend he doesnt want to find out about you 2,please save yourself the grief hes using you.
2006-11-11 22:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by penn_av 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may think you're good for him, but he is not good for you. My advice, based on what you said, is to stay away from him. Does the word "player" mean anything to you. He's taking advantage of your feelings.
2006-11-11 22:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. If he is only like that when you're alone it's no good. Sorry sweetie but you need to let it go.
2006-11-11 22:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Honey7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you, he will gather all his guts to tell you and make sure he doesn't lose you. If he seriously likes you, he will make sure that it is clear to you, therefore preventing any mixed signals.
2006-11-11 22:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by WomanOnTop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. And it's not you! Leave him alone. Get your own man.
2006-11-11 22:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by sadinLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't want you , he just wants booty on the sly. So don't get caught up in the bull.
2006-11-11 22:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by mrimprovize59@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋