He has said he's attracted to me in lots of ways...and we have so much fun. In the beginning we went on a couple dates and I did the lame thing of not being flirty or anything and he thought we were going the friend route....so now here we are...but there is still chemistry. I have a wedding tomorrow where he is my date...any advice?
2006-11-11 14:41:07 · 15 answers · asked by Reese 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Throw out the friends clothing and wear something really sexy. Flirt with him and make sure you are the center of everyone's attention at the wedding.
2006-11-11 14:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is chemistry between you and him it will happen just give it some time. If he says he wants to be just friends then maybe he is afraid of a relationship with you because that sometimes kills friendships. I have been there before so don't push the issue! If it is meant to happen then it will. If it does not then just keep it as it is. Friendships like that last a life time I know I have a couple of male friends that I have been friends with since high school. I know it probably hurts becuase it did for me but it wasn't anything that I did or didn't do. They told me it was just that I was too special as a friend to lose to begin a relationship with. I thought it was a bunch of bull but I understood eventually what they meant. If you really like this guy for more than that I would try as little harder to make it known to him that you really want to be more than just friends with him. What could it hurt?
2006-11-11 22:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by seferena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he said he just wanted to be friends he has a good reason for it and it probably wouldn't have mattered whether you were flirty or not. If you can't stop wondering about it then maybe you should just tell him how you feel. This could trigger something between the two of you but wouldn't necessarily mean that he changed his feelings. None of us, male or female, likes to turn down or miss an opportunity at love. Having been through this kind of situation, I would suggest saving yourself the heartache by just keeping him as a friend.
2006-11-11 22:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you he "wants to be friends first" or he just wants to be friends period. If he tells you the first one, then that's a good idea. There may be a possibility of him having romantic interest in you in the future, but for now, it would be better to be friends, since when you're friends, you can be the real you--there are no promises to keep, and no pretenses to preserve.
Unless of course you're starting to have feelings for him already.
2006-11-11 22:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by WomanOnTop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he feel the chemistry? find out.....coz if it is only you that feels the chemistry then you will never go beyond friends. If the chemistry is there and has been from the start then you have to ask why is he wanting to be only friends..........ask him! If it's not there on his side then start looking again and forget this one!
2006-11-11 22:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by laceworkx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be your friend, accept it.
If he wants more, then he will tell you.
If not, then you can do without the fact that he cannot be direct.
Maybe he just doesn't feel the chemistry you do.
Love is hard, love sucks! But real Love is easy and wonderful!
2006-11-11 22:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Contra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he doesnt want to go any further because he thinks YOU dont want to (because of the way you act towards him) then you should act the way you feel towards him. Talk to him about it. Let him know you think of him as more than just a friend.
2006-11-11 22:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by hersheekysses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
safe bet he doesn't want to date you. Once a guy makes up his mind you could be Mother Threresa (her heart) and miss universe and he still isn't interested
2006-11-11 22:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by prettyheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It just means that he wants to be friends with you...but try to liven up and talk more...a good product should come!
2006-11-11 22:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it as just friends.
2006-11-11 22:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋