How should I prove that I really love her?

Question

There is this girl, my classmate, who said in his email (after I told her my feeling) that she doesn't like me in that way and just wants to be friend.

I can't and will not forget her. What should I do to prove her that I am not like any other boys who can only experience lust? Please give me some things that i can do in daily life at school...

Thanks

Answer 1

Love just doesn't happen!! Love is something that grows! Love is not one sided!
At this point you need to prove yourself to be a good friend. If one cannot be a true friend, one cannot know how to LOVE.

Love is kind, gentle, forgiving, helping, peacable, longsuffering always perferring the other above himself/herself.

Answer 2

I know how you feel only too well. Only problem is that I've never been faced with a problem like that (the "What should I do to prove her that I am not like any other boys who can only experience lust?" part), but I'll do the best I can to help you with your problem.
1:tell her to look at this Yahoo! Answers quesion.

2:think about what you might say to her and all the things that she might say/do from you saying that. It works for me.

3:Tell her something like (random name Kay) "Listen Kay. I know you may think I'm like the average boy that just wants sex, but I'm not. We've known each other for *insert how long you've known her here* & I would never take advanage of you like that! *pause for dramatic effect or whatever* Kay, you're my best friend. I'd never abuse you, Because *pause again(...)* you're he only girl I've ever loved." Yeah, feel free to alter that in any way you want.
When you've gone through the stuff I have, you know how to talk to a girl

Answer 3

Well she kinda told you no already. She was nice about it too. You don't have to forget her, but there are soooooo many good women out there, why waste your time on one who doesn't reciprocate the feelings?

That's great you are more into her than just the "physical" stuff. There's always a better person out there who'll appreciate that.

Good luck!

Answer 4

You need to just leave her alone for awhile. If you continue to bother her about going out, you will appear to be like a stalker. Unfortunetly, there is nothing you can do to prove yourself to her, her mind is made up.

Answer 5

they don't call it game for nothing. you told her how you feel, if she dosen't want it, give your attention to another girl. then she will think, hey what about me?, when she heres how good your treating someone else. you have to forget about her for a minute. if your fronted by her, keep it short and sweet with her a bit in the dark. good luck and like i said sometimes you have to play the game.

Answer 6

ok first try 2 see wy she dosnt like u n fix da problems then tak 2 her promise her ur not only after sex n tell her if u ever do anyting like that she can end it rite then n ther
but also see if she likes som1 els tho that mite b wy she dont like u like that

Answer 7

if the girl said no to you the first time, it means that she isn't interested, but if you really love her, you should leave her alone and let her have some space, that will show her that your not like the other guys.

Answer 8

when u go 2 school maybe give her some flower be sweet 2 her .
Tell her that she is pretty i.Im a girl i know.

Answer 9

Just be the best you can be. If she's a great girl she'll eventually take notice.

Answer 10

I think you shoould prove it to her and not say it because many boys and girls say that and dont never even mean it.