i dont no wat 2 do im so sad and i can barly type or do anything she is the only 1 im thinking about. i loved her. but im only 13 and im not sure she felt the same.
2006-11-11 14:29:53 · 17 answers · asked by Mike M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do something fun to get your mind off of her. And start hanging out with other girls so you can find a new one
2006-11-11 14:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike, Mike, Mike:
You remind me of the little brother I never had.
Suggestions: Cry like you have never cried before with your fav. music blasting top notch all windows closed and doors locked (not after 9pm though, cause you don't want the neighbors calling the cops on ya). Then after you're done, ask yourself if you want to cry some more. Then ask yourself if she was worth it. Then ask yourself was it only one-sided or did she like you back?
After that experience, you will have grown a little older. You have experienced what love was and what lost of love was. Closure is what you need. Then go do what you like to do - computer games, focus on getting good grades, ride your bike around, get a good work out and sweat it out like the flu.
When you make the big bucks, the girls will stick to you. Don't worry, the world is yours to pick and choose from.
Cheer up and wipe the big crocodile tears cause she's not the only girl on the planet. And, yes, you are right, it's okay to cry for boys and girls. Crying is a human feeling and boys and men are humans last time I checked.
2006-11-11 14:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by mustbetoughtobeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, look at this way - the first heartbreak is always the worst! Be happy you got it out of the way at the age of 13 - and just understand that there is most definitely a girl you know right now that thinks you are the most wonderful guy on the planet and wishes she could be with you. And remember, living well and being happy is the best revenge.
2006-11-11 14:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by rrmorris45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love at any age. So im not gonna say what most people do. It doesnt really matter that youre thirteen. Im fourteen and ive already had my first love and i know it. But most people would say its fake.. Just try what i did. Move on. I mean you probably did love her. But she obviously didnt feel the same. Just tell her that shell always be your first love. And tell her that you wish it coulda worked out. And just try to do something thatll take your mind off of her. Or try meeting someone else who will help you through it. I mean the girl who helped me through my first love is my current love=]. You never know.
2006-11-11 14:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god, do i sympathize with you. i had a girl when i was your age, beautiful, tall, the most sought after girl in the grade. Everyone was like "how'd you get her, man?" i just shrugged. yeah, we lasted for 5 months. when we broke up i felt like jumping down the 3 flights of concrete stairs to my next class. I didn't, but it hurt. I hate the way everyone thinks guys are ALWAYS the ones who ditch girls and NEVER cry/care/have feelings. If a guy askes a girl out, he will very rarely ditch her. GUYS HAVE FEELINGS TOO!!
but yeah, i'm 15 now and havn't had a girlfrind in 2 years and don't miss them. my advise, take as many as u can handle in 7th and 8th grade but in high school, they start being bitchy. hook onto one if you can fully trust her and you will most likely stay together for a while.
2006-11-11 14:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by The Big D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a lesson in life. It's something you will get over eventually. Also, guys do have feelings but don't say it. You're going to be a man soon, so you must learn from these things.
2006-11-11 14:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling her and apologizing to her. Tell her how you really feel about her. If you care about her that much don't give up on her. Call and bug her until she hears you out. Unless you did something really stupid. She might just need to calm down and think about things, give her some time.
2006-11-11 14:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's much too early to have a girlfriend. So much emotional baggage comes with girlfriends, that is why it is best to wait till you are older. There will be plenty of more girls for you later.
2006-11-11 14:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she broke up with u does not mean that u can find someone who is better. there is more fish in the sea.
2006-11-11 14:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by adrianshelbyjunior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, you'll move on and be happy.....just takes time. Play some video games or something to take your mind off of her.
2006-11-11 14:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋