i just got heart broken 2 in a row this week and slipped into a being depressed i can barley eat and everytime i have sometime to my self i start to tear up and cry...this always happens to me everytime i fall for a guy they never like me back and if they do they move away or i move away..i guess im just meant to be alone...im so depressed and i need some help gettin over this
2006-11-11 14:23:14 · 11 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out there and help people less fortunate then you. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, hospital, or animal shelter. This will help you in three ways:
1. You will feel good about yourself because you are helping others.
2. You will realize that your problems aren't so serious after all when you see the pain people live in every day - that you will help them out of!
3. You will meet new people - at the very least new friends, and maybe even a guy who likes you for who you are and treats you with respect!
Good luck!
2006-11-11 14:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure of your age, but hon been there done that. Everytime i liked someone and they didn't like me back i cried and cried. It hurts yes but eventually you build a wall and you only let the right man tear it down so he can get to your heart. I use to fall fast and hard, and everytime i got screwed. It's painful but you learn to move on and not let it hurt so much. No ones meant to be alone. Just give it time and the right guy will show up and you'll be so happy you waited for him. Hugs
2006-11-11 14:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.Your so not meant to be alone,your just maybe picking the wrong guys or maybe its just at the wrong time.Life has just an odd way of doing things,it's meaning who knows we just swallow it up and keep going.Don't give up life is so precious and I'm a believer God Is putting you through so many tests so when the right one comes along you'll be ready,remember life is crazy.You didn't want them guys if you knew that 10yrs. down the road or hopefully sooner it would fail.We want what we want but in the wings theres something so much better for us.Work on you and have time just for you because when relationships take over our lives we usually forget about us.pamper,do girl things,trust me you'll look back and remember when you should of could of.good luck honey from someone who knows -BE STRONG!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 14:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then youre seriously falling for the wrong guys. If they dont like you back then dont go out with them. Just stay low for awhile. Go with the flow. Try to get something or someone to get your mind off of it. Free time is when it hurts you the most. Things pass after awhile. Ive gone through it. The best advice i can give you is to wait it out...
2006-11-11 14:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just realize that love and companionship is a small part of life, and that there is alot more to enjoy, rather than dating and love. Theres going to be alot of guys in your life, you'll eventually find the right one - Just realize that you need to live, and have a good time, whilst your still alive. Don't waste your time with worrying over anything.
2006-11-11 14:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by StreetPunk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not looking for someone so hard. you are only setting yourself up to get hurt. and as far as being alone, sometimes being alone is better than being with someone. Really though, I think you are latching on a bit too soon and too strongly if it has happened 2 times this week alone, maybe you are scaring them off....
2006-11-11 14:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by goddessin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because your trying too hard and your too worried about it. You will find the person that is right for you, when your not even looking and if the person is right you wont have to try or do anything to make them like you, they will do that on their own. Don't kill yourself looking for others approval or love, if you have to do that for someone to notice you or like you then they arent worth your time and if your not enough for them now your not going to be enough for them later. Trust me I know i've been there girl hang in there!
2006-11-11 14:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...u should find a cuter guy and ask him out and if he says yes then try it out and if the guy that broke ur heart comes back just say no because remember that he made u go through rough times and he made u cry nows the time to make him feel it and get payback thats wat all the other girls should do!
2006-11-11 14:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by zee h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont worry about someone breaking up with you. dont get into a relationship right away...if you do like that special someone make sure they are right for you before you go out with them.......
now when someone breaks up with you try to go outside and get some fresh air. go to the park and play. try thinking about something exiciting. go out and do something exciting. dont think about that person who broke up with you.
hope this helps!
2006-11-11 14:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously what i would do is pray about it. ask the Lord to direct someone to you that needs you as much as you need them. to have someone love you as much as you love them. if a life partner is what you seek, pray about it. i will pray too. if two comes together in my name, Jesus said, i will answer. have faith and believe. i don't know you, but i do know the Lord has someone in mind that is feeling the same way you are.
2006-11-11 14:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by lolly125107 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋