They always act like I am not there, and it makes me really depressed.
2006-11-11 14:21:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
some people don't know how to show love, mainly because of the way they were raised, but that doesn't mean they don't love. The best thing to do is to talk to them about this it is always better to ask a question and get an answer, then to dwell on assumptions. GL
2006-11-11 14:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear you feel like this. I'm sure they do love you but they probably don't realise that they aren't showing it in a way that you need. People get so caught up in life and practical things that sometimes they don't express their feelings in an obvious way. They shouldn't ignore you or act like you're not there and I'm sure they don't want to behave that way, but they don't realise they're doing it. Talk to them about it. Tell them how you feel. I'm sure they would be so upset to know that you are depressed. Honestly, they do love you, they just aren't showing it right now. Take care x
2006-11-11 23:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by martina_ie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is difficult for a parent to express to the child how they feel. If they are stressed or they are tired especially so. Maybe they are just trying to give you some room to grow. Try to bring it up to them, they probably don't even realize that this is making you feel this way.
2006-11-11 22:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by goddessin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they r like my parents then u just need to talk to them and tell them about how u feel. They may not relize that they r making u feel this way. Communication is the key.
2006-11-11 22:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by purple_mustang_girl08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They love you!!
Sit down and talk to them about your feelings and that it is depressing you. Don't let it go too long, because you will start thinking crazy things.
2006-11-11 22:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might not show it but deep inside they do love you.Talk to your parents about how you feel,and don't get depressed over it.
2006-11-11 22:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful Fat Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know that they act like you're not there and tell them that it makes you feel bad. Plan some family nights so y'all can watch movies and stuff.
If you talk to them and get involved then maybe they will act like you ARE there.
2006-11-11 22:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss your feelings openly with your parents when they are in a calm mood. They should be able to reassure you and make you feel loved and cared for.
2006-11-11 22:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your parents will always love you some times i feel like that at my house so i say tell your parents that you feel that way and maybe things will change my best hopes :-)
2006-11-11 22:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let that get u down they'll love you no matter what. maybe they're just having a bad day or is busy thats sometimes what my parents do too
2006-11-11 22:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋