ok so theres this guy that i met last summer, we hung out all the time because we were in the same summerschool class. but we were always with his friends because mine didn't go to summerschool. we hung out all summer and i thought he liked me. but then once school started he met some of my friends. and now he likes my best friend and also one of my other friends. he still talks to me all the time. and i can't tell if he's hanging out with me becuse he's my friend or becuase he wants to get to my other friends. he seems nice but i'm starting to think he's just using me. even though he knows that my friends don't like him. now i don't know what to do, because i don't want to be used like that, but on the other hand. i still think he's an ok guy, idk maybe i'm just jealous becuase i like him. although i try not to ever act jealous when i'm around him. i'm able to joke around with him about it all but is that sending him the wrong message?
what would you do if
2006-11-11 14:10:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you were me?
2006-11-11 14:10:40 · update #1
ask him what he thinks of the other girls. that will tell you a few things.
2006-11-11 14:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tom B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should deff talk to him about this, let him know that you have a crush on him and it upsets you to see him talking to your friends the same way, let him know that you thought you and him had something going on. Talk to your friends about this situation and tell them that when you met him in summerschool you sorta started liking him and now you feel as if they are getting in the way of things. If this guy still doesnt listen, move on find someone that will be worth your while. You deserve better than to chase after someone not worth it. If he likes you more than a friend he will understand best wishes.
2006-11-11 22:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of him as being the only guy in the world.
2006-11-11 22:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he likes ur friends
Or just forget him
2006-11-11 22:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him do u like ma friend and if he says yes thn ask him which one... also tell ur best friend that u like him
2006-11-11 22:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dance around the subject ...ask him out for a movie...then ask him......
2006-11-11 22:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Deb M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him if you think he is using you what other things do you think he will do and just stay friends
2006-11-11 22:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Pr!Sc!11@ @K@ G@bY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!! you dont need him. just move on . there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-11-11 22:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am init for the points
2006-11-11 22:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Hotstuffkate316 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋