I'm a sophmore (15) and haven't had a girlfriend since the since I moved in the 6th grade. Im pretty shy and real skinny but still 4 years is a long time. I think it's cause I'm not very strong. I haven't asked a girl out in a long time because I'm not really confident. I don't really have any place to meet girls besides school. I don't do extra stuff just skateboard and play video games.
2006-11-11 14:08:38 · 9 answers · asked by Dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow. you sound like me
except im a 15 year old girl and ive NEVER had a boyfriend
i am shy too and i dont really have a place to meet any guys.
you dont have to be strong to get a girl.
lots of girls, and i am speaking from personal experience, think the skinny shy boys are the cutest ones. go for it, just find a girl you think is pretty and just try to be friends with her. if it helps, approach her with a friend with you, so its less pressure
im sure theres got to be girls at your school who would love for you to ask them out. the worst they can say is no. then you just find someone else
GOOD LUCK!
p.s. the guys that are saying be a jerk are totally wrong. theres no better way to turn a girl OFF than to do that
2006-11-11 14:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls like guys who have high self esteem. if you think you are too skinny, start working out. this is what i do... and i'm a fourteen year old girl. Now i have a six-pack! :-) And guys practically following me around. it also helped with my shy problem.
if you don't have time to work out, just be yourself. i have seen some pretty nerdy guys going to the movies with hot girls. and it's also the skinny guys that girls like, just b/c they tend to be more respectful to us girls. my first bf, who JUST broke up with me, was really skinny, but had really nice biceps cause he worked out. the most important thing was that he respected me though, and that's what i liked about him above everything else. to the guys who say to be a jerk, i simply say, get a life...
2006-11-14 08:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow just wow...i'm like in the same situation... except really shy with guys and everything. You can try and find other girls that have the same interests as you and when you go out talk to other girls, they also really nervous too.
2006-11-11 22:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are still young to be serious with girls. but having some female friends will be good. Approach some girl you like and start talking to her...she is nervous too so don't worry.
2006-11-11 22:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like you dont give a fu*k what happens to you. act like you dont care about the girls around you, but also talk to thema little bit more. just dont act too shy. and be confident about youself. and then when they are feeling ya, act like you really dont care a whole lot about the situation.
2006-11-11 22:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by $TEREOTYPE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not about being strong, it's about confidence!
2006-11-11 22:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident and a bit of a jerk and women will fall all over you.
2006-11-11 22:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try to flirt wif grls so u can know them better n if u got the courage then, ask the one you like out
2006-11-11 22:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a coward too.
Any way , you are lucky too.
2006-11-11 22:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋