I worked really hard this year in school and got 90s in every other class but Math... in which I got a 65 (which is passing but is one point away from failing.) I don't know how to tell them or how they will react soo... how would you react or like to be told if your child was in this situation?
2006-11-11 14:07:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Oh, BTW I mean I don't know how to tell my parents. I said "them" instead of being specific. Sorry.
2006-11-11 14:07:56 · update #1
There's no way to get out of NOT telling them - trust me, parents know exactly when report cards come home! Just tell them that everything is good but Math and then perhaps ask for their help in raising the grade. You can do it!!! God bless!!!
2006-11-11 14:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder if you are placed in a appropriate math class. Is it too excelled. Some people are really smart in other subjects, and have a really hard time in just one.
But, look at it this way... You obviously understand and excel in the other subjects, so next semester put more effort into the math class. Go after school and get help, find a study partner, etc. As long as you show your parents that you are making a effort in getting a good grade, they should cut you some slack. Good luck.
2006-11-12 00:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing here you are above middle school maybe a freshman. The problem is that you should have told them before the end. I am always wishing my son would tell me he's slipping before it's too late. Then loving parents can help you nip things in the bud before they are out of control. So after you tell them the news then tell them, "Hey I learned that I should have told you first thing. So next semester when I have a test, I'll let you know." If things are really a problem you can have a friend or older student tudor you! That is often helpful and all you would really need to do is ask your teacher if they know someone. Good Luck and you may email me anytime you may be lost. With five kids, what's one more? :)
2006-11-11 22:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyindisguise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell them, I had some successes and some challenges this year in school. That sets them up to know that it will be mixed news. And then ask them, do they want to hear the successes or the challenge first? Some parents like the bad news first, others the good.
If it's the bad news, tell them that you passed Math, however, it was a barely passing grade. Let them know that you are thinking about getting a tutor to help, because it's the only class you're having problems in.
Then tell them that you've gotten A's in the rest of your courses and are proud of your success.
2006-11-11 22:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think if i was your mom, i would look into why you got a 65. was it because you really didnt understand it, or you just didnt try hard enough in that class, like didnt do homework and stuff. i would talk to the teacher. if you just didnt understand it, i would not be mad at you, i mean if you really tried hard, how can you be mad. everyone has weaknesses and maybe yours is math. maybe you should see a tutor or see if your teacher can give you some extra help, most teachers are more than willing to help. but as for telling your parents they are going to find out sometime, so it is better for them to hear it from you then the school. since you got As in all your other classes i dont think they will be too mad at you.
2006-11-12 00:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by krystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that Math was the most difficult subject for you this year and you knew it was gonna be the lowest grade of them all, but you didn't think it was gonna be THAT low, then act all upset, let a couple of tears slip out if you want. That might help. I would look for a tutor in Math for my child, and try to lessen the load in the easier subjects. Their teacher would know where my childs Math weakness lies, and I would spend part of the summer helping them get up to speed for the next grade level.
2006-11-11 22:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, congrats on your other grades, but clearly there is an issue with math class that needs to be addessed. My kids are only 5, not being graded in school yet. But when they get to that point, I hope I'm the type of parent that does not get angry about grades, but is instead moved to action. As in, sit down with my child and the teacher, hear what she has to say, maybe hire a tutor for that subject.
2006-11-11 22:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, had same problem with my little girl. She gave me her report card and there it was the bad grade in math. I was upset and she let rant and rave for afew minutes. And then she gave it to me: All other grades are very good, but math is my weak spot, and its very fustrating for me. I need tutoring in mathe or I will not be able to get my grade up.
Now believe me as a parent you shut up when your kids wants to do additional schooling. So if you really want to get that grade up and to shock you parents try it with the I need help number. Good Luck
2006-11-12 08:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by eidunotno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is good in all subjects. You probably need more help in math than just offered in class. Talk to your parents and see if they can arrange for before or after school help or get you a tutor. Otherwise you are doing wonderful.
2006-11-11 22:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say math is not your best subject. Your grades show that you are doing the best you can..that's what matters. My son recently asked me if he failed would i be mad at him?..He said he is doing his best, but he thinks he might fail. I told him..if you fail, it just means you did;nt get all of what you needed to before going to the next grade. I wouldn't be mad. it happens..do your best..if you get stuck..ask for help. You my not always get grades that are in the 90's..it's ok to do that.
Don't be so hard on yourself..
2006-11-11 22:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋