help . experienced people only .?

Question

when i masturbate , um it does effect me . NO EXCITEMENT . what should i do ? any tip or tricks ?

Answer 1

why dont you just wait until you are a bit older

Answer 2

You may have some psychological blocks. Have you tried different ways of masturbating? A shower hose spray or the water coming out of the tap in the tub? Some special personal toys you like to use? Visual stimulation through porn? The key is to find what works best for you and then try to relax into it. Sometimes, women who have trouble with arousal and climax are stressed by other things, even from childhood. You may want to think about finding a good counselor if your masturbation experiments don't give you what you are hoping for.

Answer 3

1) Try doing it somewere ,were you have a greater chance of getting caught. No really it really works.

2) Have your boyfriend watch you. You both shoud get excited.

3) Try getting in different positions.

4) Think about something dirty or doing something dirty with or to somebody.

Answer 4

You should rub the wall to back to other wall, then back again. Start slow at first, then pick up speed as the feelings come to you. What you are doing is looking for your sex spots, and once you find them, those are the spots that you want to rub often.

Answer 5

orgasm is initiated by the brain...
guys are visual,
girls are more in their heads
focus on something really turns you on (sometimes your fantasies are not what always what you want them to be...but a fantasie is just that a fantasy they are not ment to come true)

I woudlnt worry, you will find your way, not everything in this life has to be performance oriented.

Answer 6

Relax and ..hmm how do i keep this at least pg -13.. Rub your clit and try g spot stimulation.

Answer 7

mutual masturbation is the key

Answer 8

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