My boyfirend and I have been in a loving homosexual relationship for almost six months. Recently he made the comment that he doesn't feel that I loved him as mush as he loved me. As I tried to reassure him, he then told me that if I really Ioved him I'd be willing to open up into more sexual exploration. He suggested that I at least try to perform falatio on him.
I told him that I couldn't picture myself performing oral sex on anyone. He then commented that I was very conceited and added that he'd made love to every inch of body and loved it. I confessed to him that I loved him more than I'd loved anyone, besides my son, and that all that sex stuff really doesn't mean anything to me and that it was the way he made me feel that mattered the most.
I've tried to talk to other gay males about it and even women, but they only made statements like I think I'm too good. The only person who agreed with me was my sister.
Please let me know what you think?
2006-11-11 13:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by lil m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel sick
2006-11-11 13:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Compromise is the key. If both parties in a relationship are not satisfied with sex and other things, it may become quite strenious. If you and your partner don't see eye to eye on this issue, and can't find some common ground, then i assure you, this will not get any better, and other aspects of your relationship will also become unstable. Find someone out there who will not make you feel guilty, but at the same time..make it a somebody your willing to make compromises for.... that is what love is all about.. I don't think that your too good, I think that you just have the WRONG partner:)
2006-11-11 13:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I dont think he should try to guilt you into doing anything. I'm not the most comfortable performing oral sex on my bf and he is more than understanding. Talk to your bf about how it makes you feel, and if he can't understand how you feel about it I would consider getting a new bf.
2006-11-11 13:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, and they shouldn't ask repeatidly either, thats disrespect. You are not acting liek your too good, it's not your thing, you don't like the sound of a rape right, do you think you'd like it any better if u tried it, or are u too good for it, that's stupid, right. You shouldn't have to feel bad for your decisions in your life, not those ones, if your partner cant leave it alone tell them bye and to go find someone to suck his ddick
2006-11-11 13:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you may not need the physical stuff to feel loved, but he may. You may love him very much, but if he feels unloved it will not end well.
2006-11-11 13:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
love.... if u truly love him... i would do what i could to make my partner happy... at least give it a try.... then u can say I really know I dont like it & gave it a shot...
if he persists- then loose him- cause then he really doesnt love u
2006-11-14 21:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just go ahead, and give him head. Sex is the fun part of a relationship!!
2006-11-11 13:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
i am sorry but this guy is using u for his sexual pleasure.
when some love each other belive me they don't force their parten to do things their parten don't want to.
2006-11-11 13:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That "if u loved me you would.........." line is so played out.
2006-11-11 13:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by butter200235 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋