Please... no stupid comment plz.
I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now. during the honeymood period, she was great. always make effort to see me. but i could tell that she has a secrective personality. now the situation just got worst. she disappears and don't answer her phone call. don't tell me where she is.. doesn't bother to txt back. my friend told me to just play cool.. don't ask.. and don't put too much effort in. what do you think?
2006-11-11 13:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by LeoRS250 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm.. are yous saying... just keep seeing her, keep her on the side... find other stuff/ppl to keep me busy and when she's ready.. she will talk. and if something is up.... i won't be wasting my time?
p.s. i don't call her every 5 mins... maybe once or 2ice a day if i didn't see her or spoke to her online.
2006-11-11 13:27:05 · update #1
lol at fizzle. abusive?! if anything i'm not the one that's abusive. i've never even yelled at her.
i just feel unconfortable, because she doesn't answer her phones when she's with me. and when she's not with me, she doesn't answer my calls. (she does, sometimes... but no most of the time.)
2006-11-11 13:38:03 · update #2
Um.. Yes, this is weird, but maybe you should try and act nonchalant about it. Maybe she is trying to give you a hint that you are too clingy. Back off a bit bro. Don't be so over aggressive, like "OH MY CRAP WHERE DID YOU GO!!" Every 5 min.
2006-11-11 13:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An early warning sign of an abusive personality is needing to know where the other person is and what they're doing all the time. You're already acting like she has no right to privacy in her own life.
2006-11-11 21:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut & run she obviously doesn't feel the same for you as you do for her
to sweety pie yuohave no idea what the hell your on about calling him a 2 faced jerk you don't know whohe is so don't think you have the special right to judge people
2006-11-11 21:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is leading a double life and something going on = on the side- that way she always has someone to fall back on- my ex used to do that all the time- and be hanging out in the wrong places at the wrong time- D
2006-11-11 21:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's definitely hiding something.
I wouldn't trust her as far as could throw Rosie O'Donnel.
2006-11-11 21:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her. Let her come to you. She just may want to have a little space. If you crowd her too much you may lose her.
2006-11-11 21:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by movu101779 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Your friend sounds right. Don't let your emotions get attached to this one, and stop calling her your girlfriend.
2006-11-11 21:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should let her come 2 u. There's something about herself that she isn't ready to share yet. When she's ready she'll come to you., don't worry
2006-11-11 21:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by nichellecomicbookgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..i'm not sure...just ask her wuts up..tell her that u think u guys might b having issues....especially on her part....just tell her that..if she gets all tense and acts like ur accusing her, somethigs definetely up....if she gets upset, then maybe nothings happening. also, ask her where she wau on one of the days tat u couldn't get hold of her. me nice, not acusing.
2006-11-11 21:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't over react, but if your concern is legitimate don't take that, there is a pretty good chance shes doing something you wouldn't like.
2006-11-11 21:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by ajvpb 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋