Ok, i met this girl a few weeks ago and we hit it off, we went out and got dinner. We talked to each other every day online, and i saw things were goign in very good directions UNTILL she went home (1.5 hours away) for the weekend..came back that monday and on wednesday the day before we planned to go out to a movie together she layed down the I have a BF bomb..OUT OF NOWHERE! had no clue at all....serious relationship of 2 years, she claims to love him. Well she likes me about as much as i like her,quite a bit. I told her i didnt want to see her anymore after a long conversation. Well she gets all emotional and starts crying and such...next day i decide to take her out casue i have no back bone, haha. Night was more than great. got dinner and jsut walked around for hours talking to eachother. I had to force her to leave. So now she is back home for the weekend with BF. What the heck should i do! I want her to be mine, she is one of those rare girls who has all the qualities i like.
2006-11-11 13:05:09 · 3 answers · asked by light fixtures rule! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really, you can't do anything. it's up to her to decide if she wants to be with you or him. and even after that, there is still the whole thing that she's a cheater, since she is cheating on him when she sees you. are you going to be able to know that she won't do that to you sometime in the future if you do get together?
2006-11-11 13:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is kind of strange how what appears to be a perfect girl ends up being a taken girl. as much as you like her, you need to let go. she appears to be confused about what she wants and appears unable to deal with her current situation.despite the fact that she may like you, shes afraid of losing both of the guys in her life.i don't suppose you wanna ask her to make a choice or tell her that you will make one for her. talk to her about the situation thoroughly. understand her point of view and make her understand yours. are you really willing to be the one on a side?
2006-11-11 21:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay away from women like this. Even if her b/f was dead and gone what guarantee do you have she would not find another man and still be with you. You have to ask yourslef what it is that you really want?
2006-11-11 21:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Roger89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋