Is it normal to want to go farther than a french kiss???? Especially for a christian...but I am a teenager....i dont know if I am bad for thinking of my b/f that way....am I???
2006-11-11 12:57:17 · 9 answers · asked by Lady family 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're not bad, you're normal.
Trust your instincts and show common sense, and you won't go wrong.
2006-11-11 13:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Christians are human too. As a Christian you probably know that sex outside of marriage is a sin. Especially if you've only been together for such a short period of time and you're a teenager. Set yourself some boundries and let your boyfriend know what they are. According to the Bible even thinking it is a sin. Pray about it. It'll all work out.
2006-11-11 13:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mud 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its way too soon! Believe me as a guy, he hasn't formed the kind of bond with you that you need for a physical relationship beyond kissing. If you can defer it until you are in your 20's you are way better off. Guys are driven when young and if they have relations with a girl too soon they will lose interest - its human nature so don't do it!
2006-11-11 13:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I faced the same dilemma and all i can tell you is everything is a notion .If you wanna go further just say for yourself it's OK to do it as long as you don't hurt anyone(especially yourself)in the process.There is nothing normal everything is a question of self belief and personal parameters.
2006-11-11 13:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Teila 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
as a older person i'd say slow down , be sure before you go to far , and i'm a christian too but not a prude
2006-11-11 13:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should totally wait till ur married, but it doesnot make u a bad person or christian, its a good thing, and u should ambrace it. but not use it. and its completly natural.
2006-11-11 13:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by beach_babe88988 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
however far you and him think it should go...and no theres absoutely nothing wrong with wanting 2 go further
2006-11-11 13:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you went to Boise you went too far.
2006-11-11 13:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Being physical can only cause complications. So if you love him, keep it sacred until marriage.
2006-11-11 13:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mister 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋